Getting with older women

[GoodMan32]

That is a pointless marriage. No idea why either person stayed in that marriage. You got some pussie and the husband didn't. You made him a cuck.

They stayed together for the kids. Or so I was told. I only heard one side of the story (I don't even know the husband).

The whole thing doesn't make one bit of sense though. Even my 23 year old wood was interested in her, yet her 50 year old husband preferred jacking off over having sex with her. A 50 year old man should be thrilled if a curvy 45 year old woman wants sex with him (especially if he's married to her)

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

It has been said that for every beautiful woman in the world, there is a man that’s tired of having sex with her.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I've actually found it more difficult to get with older women than younger. Despite being middle aged, I've had better results with younger (18-30) than older. Older women seem more cautious and skeptical. I get the impression they think I'm running some 'game' on them. Younger ones just seem less defensive and more 'giddy'.

Your SMV is too high right now. It sets off alarm bells.

Similarly, I had my share of 40+ y/o cougars in my early 20s. Soon as I hit 30, no woman over 40 would even talk to me.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It has been said that for every beautiful woman in the world, there is a man that’s tired of having sex with her.

This is particularly true in California.

 

[GoodMan32]

On the topic of older women:

I have a coworker who's 55 or 56. I managed to get a peek (without getting caught) of her backside this morning. She's wearing tight jeans which show off her nice backside (if you only saw a picture of her backside, you could easily believe she's half her age)

I don't get the repulsion a lot of men feel toward older broads.

 

[SW15]

I have a coworker who's 55 or 56. I managed to get a peek (without getting caught) of her backside this morning.

Did you see her bare butt? It doesn't sound like it. Her skin elasticity on her butt will likely be reflective of an older woman.

In a pair of jeans, some older women's butts can look competitive.

I don't get the repulsion a lot of men feel toward older broads.

It's hard science and biology. It also goes back thousands of years, when keeping the species alive was very important. Men are programmed to be most attracted to a woman's youthfulness and fertility.

A woman's fertility peaks in her late teens and first half of her 20s. That's why women in this age range are the most desirable women.

 

[SW15]

I think they might find younger guys attractive, but some might have mental hangups about going forward with a hookup or FWB with that younger guy.

Sort of like… “I don’t do that anymore” or “I shouldn’t be doing that at my age.” In others words, they might talk themselves out of it.

I think there are plenty of middle aged women (35-54) who find guys 10+ years younger than them physically attractive. Most will have some sort of mental hangup about sex with a much younger guy. Middle aged women in general have strong ASD (Anti-Slut Defense) and aren't that keen to get sexual fast. They display this both with men near their own ages and younger men. However, a small percentage of 35-54 year old women will get massively turned on by attractive younger guys (often the Chad 6'0"+, fit/muscular type, but not always). If a younger guy can give a strong sexual frame announcement to an older woman AND she's the type who doesn't have hangups about younger men, then there might be a match (generally a short term match). It's very inefficient for a younger man to make the effort to find these women.

 

[GoodMan32]

Did you see her bare butt? It doesn't sound like it. Her skin elasticity on her butt will likely be reflective of an older woman.

In a pair of jeans, some older women's butts can look competitive.



It's hard science and biology. It also goes back thousands of years, when keeping the species alive was very important. Men are programmed to be most attracted to a woman's youthfulness and fertility.

A woman's fertility peaks in her late teens and first half of her 20s. That's why women in this age range are the most desirable women.

No, I unfortunately didn't see her bare backside. You're right, it is possible she has elasticity issues (but no guarantee)

I've been with multiple 50-somethings. I've been with one 60-something. And I've been with many 40-somethings (a decent amount of which were in the 2nd half of their 40s)

(OK, this is hilarious. The coworker I posted about just walked by as I was typing this message )

Back to my train of thought, I only recall elasticity being an issue with 2 older broads:

A 54 year old I banged when I was in college.

A 65 year old I've been banging since she was 57. Elasticity wasn't an issue with her in the beginning. It only started to become a problem once she reached 63-64 or so.

I suppose you're right about the biological/fertility explanation. It's funny how even a man like you who doesn't want kids is drawn to the most fertile of broads (but yeah, I understand a man's individual preferences won't overpower a biological instinct thousands of years in the making)

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I've found older women seem to have more stamina. They'll ride you. Younger women orgasm too quickly.

Young women can't take a good d!cking to save their life, including my GF

I actually tease her about that all the time

 

[GoodMan32]

I think there are plenty of middle aged women (35-54) who find guys 10+ years younger than them physically attractive. Most will have some sort of mental hangup about sex with a much younger guy. Middle aged women in general have strong ASD (Anti-Slut Defense) and aren't that keen to get sexual fast. They display this both with men near their own ages and younger men. However, a small percentage of 35-54 year old women will get massively turned on by attractive younger guys (often the Chad 6'0"+, fit/muscular type, but not always). If a younger guy can give a strong sexual frame announcement to an older woman AND she's the type who doesn't have hangups about younger men, then there might be a match (generally a short term match). It's very inefficient for a younger man to make the effort to find these women.

What's interesting (and I've mentioned this before when the topic has come up) is @AmsterdamAssassin said the total opposite (as far as anti-slvt defense goes). He said older broads have reached the age where they no longer care about getting judged for hopping into bed too soon.

As for the Chad thing, I recall you saying before that an older woman might settle for a merely above average younger guy if unable to get a younger Chad.

 

[GoodMan32]

@SW15 To expand upon the idea that evolutionary instincts are why men flock to younger broads (in other words, the most fertile broads), I fully admit I'm attracted to younger broads (even if I have my reasons for preferring older when it comes to sex)

That being said, I wouldn't necessarily say I'm most attracted to younger broads. Hell, I've reached the age where a lot of 18 year old broads look like children to me.

Perhaps I'm proof that the base biological desire to pick a broad when she's at her most fertile is slowly eroding.

 

[GoodMan32]

Young women can't take a good d!cking to save their life, including my GF

I actually tease her about that all the time

Yet for some reason, you picked a young woman (who, per your own admission, struggles to take the pipe) for a girlfriend. Interesting.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yet for some reason, you picked a young woman (who, per your own admission, struggles to take the pipe) for a girlfriend. Interesting.

Well, she doesn't really have a choice...I don't take it easy on her. Sometimes she tries to tap out but that doesn't stop me.

I just tell her to take it like a good girl and start talking sh!t to her in her ear and fvcking her harder.

To be fair most women try and tap out but the few who haven't have all been late 30s to mid 40s.

I really don't usually date younger women but she was a rare exception.

 

[DJ Novice]

If they remind me of my mother then they are too old.

There are attractive older women out there but the majority have a face that looks like the German guy from Indiana Jones 1 after he looked at the spirits inside the ark of the covenant, and a body that could be mistaken for a rhinoceros.

Sorry but that’s the truth. And to be fair many older guys are in the same camp.

 

[GoodMan32]

@The Duke said after he got his vasectomy, the fact broads could bang him with virtually no pregnancy risk ended up adding to his sexiness factor in their eyes.

I wonder if there's a similar explanation to my preference for older broads (the fact I could bang an older broad with little to no pregnancy risk adds to their sexiness factor in my book)

 

[GoodMan32]

No similarity there, no.

If you insist.

All I know is: Even though I've been with older broads I'm not attracted to, there are plenty of older broads I am attracted to (that I've been with and that I haven't been with)

I've even stroked myself to completion at the thought of a woman in her 60s.

 

[GoodMan32]

TMI, dude.

Then you shouldn't have questioned whether I genuinely find older broads sexy.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

If you insist.

All I know is: Even though I've been with older broads I'm not attracted to, there are plenty of older broads I am attracted to (that I've been with and that I haven't been with)

I've even stroked myself to completion at the thought of a woman in her 60s.

As @BaronOfHair might say, "Stroking Myself To Completion" sounds like a snipped-off outtake from the Hedwig and The Angry Inch Soundtrack that mirrors the misplaced angst of many a confused and frustrated deviant of the early 00's Zeitgeist.

Everyone knows this of course, needless to say.

 

[GoodMan32]

I didn't question that you have an obsession for geriatrics. We don't need visual cues on you 'stroking yourself to completion'.

At the very least, you said the sexiness factor I derive from getting to bang an older broad with little to no pregnancy risk isn't nearly the same as the sexiness factor broads derived from getting to bang The Duke post-vasectomy, knowing there's virtually no chance of pregnancy.

I fail to see the big difference. In both cases, a party finds sexiness at the idea of intercourse with minimal/no pregnancy risk

(45 through 60s, my age preference, isn't exactly geriatric by the way. It's not like I'm into 80 or 90 year olds)

 

[GoodMan32]

As @BaronOfHair might say, "Stroking Myself To Completion" sounds like a snipped-off outtake from the Hedwig and The Angry Inch Soundtrack that mirrors the misplaced angst of many a confused and frustrated deviant of the early 00's Zeitgeist.

Everyone knows this of course, needless to say.

The point is: Even though my preference for older broads started out merely as a loophole to dodge pregnancy, I ended up coming to see the beauty of an older woman.