"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting the girl long distance

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Atldude

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hey guys,

i have a thing for a girl outta town and don't know if she still has a thing for me.. it maybe because i am long distance and she's not sure about it.. so my plan is to call her up and ask her "if we want to give it a shot and not worry about the long distance... "

regards,

atldude
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Answers

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Just say you'll be in her area and does she want to meet up? Say it as if you're meeting somebody and you won't mind meeting up with her.. If she dosn't want to meet then you don't have to go.
 
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Atldude

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current situation

i already met up and we met up for a group dinner with some other friends... she wanted to meet one-on-one but i couldn't handle the logistics... i want to take this to the next level, and have some sort of closure as far as moving forward or ending it once and for all... she's in college btw and graduates next april so that might be smthng to consider.. i'm 28. she's 22

thanks guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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longdistance relationship is good for me i like it cause i see her once in a week it gives me chance to meets other girls so try to invite her somewhere and don't talk about this longdistance thing except she talks about it.Try and go for a kiss,show her you love her flirt,touch her,you should be able to kiss her if you are having a great time.
 
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you don't have to worry about this long distance relationship thing, if you really like her then go after her,i believe you want to be seeing her all the time men you have to know how to deal with her in this king of relationship cause it's difficult for you to see each other,which means she might be cheating on you and you too might be cheating on her but where have you been since all this days no body is posting messages on your tread for a long time now anyway if it's like that then it means you are with her having a nice time.good:cool:
 
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Long distance can only possibly work if you see each other at least once a week. Any less and its not worth hers or your time.
 
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