"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting the girl long distance

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Atldude

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hey guys,

i have a thing for a girl outta town and don't know if she still has a thing for me.. it maybe because i am long distance and she's not sure about it.. so my plan is to call her up and ask her "if we want to give it a shot and not worry about the long distance... "

regards,

atldude
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Answers

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Just say you'll be in her area and does she want to meet up? Say it as if you're meeting somebody and you won't mind meeting up with her.. If she dosn't want to meet then you don't have to go.
 
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Atldude

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current situation

i already met up and we met up for a group dinner with some other friends... she wanted to meet one-on-one but i couldn't handle the logistics... i want to take this to the next level, and have some sort of closure as far as moving forward or ending it once and for all... she's in college btw and graduates next april so that might be smthng to consider.. i'm 28. she's 22

thanks guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jimmyjack

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longdistance relationship is good for me i like it cause i see her once in a week it gives me chance to meets other girls so try to invite her somewhere and don't talk about this longdistance thing except she talks about it.Try and go for a kiss,show her you love her flirt,touch her,you should be able to kiss her if you are having a great time.
 
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you don't have to worry about this long distance relationship thing, if you really like her then go after her,i believe you want to be seeing her all the time men you have to know how to deal with her in this king of relationship cause it's difficult for you to see each other,which means she might be cheating on you and you too might be cheating on her but where have you been since all this days no body is posting messages on your tread for a long time now anyway if it's like that then it means you are with her having a nice time.good:cool:
 
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Long distance can only possibly work if you see each other at least once a week. Any less and its not worth hers or your time.
 
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