"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting the girl long distance

Atldude

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hey guys,

i have a thing for a girl outta town and don't know if she still has a thing for me.. it maybe because i am long distance and she's not sure about it.. so my plan is to call her up and ask her "if we want to give it a shot and not worry about the long distance... "

regards,

atldude
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just say you'll be in her area and does she want to meet up? Say it as if you're meeting somebody and you won't mind meeting up with her.. If she dosn't want to meet then you don't have to go.
 

Atldude

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current situation

i already met up and we met up for a group dinner with some other friends... she wanted to meet one-on-one but i couldn't handle the logistics... i want to take this to the next level, and have some sort of closure as far as moving forward or ending it once and for all... she's in college btw and graduates next april so that might be smthng to consider.. i'm 28. she's 22

thanks guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jimmyjack

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longdistance relationship is good for me i like it cause i see her once in a week it gives me chance to meets other girls so try to invite her somewhere and don't talk about this longdistance thing except she talks about it.Try and go for a kiss,show her you love her flirt,touch her,you should be able to kiss her if you are having a great time.
 

jimmyjack

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you don't have to worry about this long distance relationship thing, if you really like her then go after her,i believe you want to be seeing her all the time men you have to know how to deal with her in this king of relationship cause it's difficult for you to see each other,which means she might be cheating on you and you too might be cheating on her but where have you been since all this days no body is posting messages on your tread for a long time now anyway if it's like that then it means you are with her having a nice time.good:cool:
 

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Long distance can only possibly work if you see each other at least once a week. Any less and its not worth hers or your time.
 
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