“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting the girl long distance

Atldude

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hey guys,

i have a thing for a girl outta town and don't know if she still has a thing for me.. it maybe because i am long distance and she's not sure about it.. so my plan is to call her up and ask her "if we want to give it a shot and not worry about the long distance... "

regards,

atldude
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just say you'll be in her area and does she want to meet up? Say it as if you're meeting somebody and you won't mind meeting up with her.. If she dosn't want to meet then you don't have to go.
 

Atldude

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current situation

i already met up and we met up for a group dinner with some other friends... she wanted to meet one-on-one but i couldn't handle the logistics... i want to take this to the next level, and have some sort of closure as far as moving forward or ending it once and for all... she's in college btw and graduates next april so that might be smthng to consider.. i'm 28. she's 22

thanks guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jimmyjack

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longdistance relationship is good for me i like it cause i see her once in a week it gives me chance to meets other girls so try to invite her somewhere and don't talk about this longdistance thing except she talks about it.Try and go for a kiss,show her you love her flirt,touch her,you should be able to kiss her if you are having a great time.
 

jimmyjack

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you don't have to worry about this long distance relationship thing, if you really like her then go after her,i believe you want to be seeing her all the time men you have to know how to deal with her in this king of relationship cause it's difficult for you to see each other,which means she might be cheating on you and you too might be cheating on her but where have you been since all this days no body is posting messages on your tread for a long time now anyway if it's like that then it means you are with her having a nice time.good:cool:
 

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Long distance can only possibly work if you see each other at least once a week. Any less and its not worth hers or your time.
 
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