You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
good analogyjophil28 said:Look, it is difficult to know what is in any one particular woman's mind after a wuss outburst..What would be a deal breaker for one woman is just a mild blip to another. But know this, wuss behavior is always incompatible with dominant behavior.
I look at it this way - your actions before the insecurity ourbreak built up a masculine credit balance with her, like a savings account at the bank. Then one day you waste a little of that money on a wuss impulse, but you stiil have some left , OK?
GEnerally,the bigger the chump behavior, the bigger the withdrawal. IN the early days of a connection with a woman it is possible to blow all your savings quickly and wind up overdrawn ,in which case you are done. Or in the FZ.
IF I were you I would revert to doing what you did best in the first few weeks and build up your account again until it cancels out the wuss debit.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hahah i love this analogyjophil28 said:Look, it is difficult to know what is in any one particular woman's mind after a wuss outburst..What would be a deal breaker for one woman is just a mild blip to another. But know this, wuss behavior is always incompatible with dominant behavior.
I look at it this way - your actions before the insecurity ourbreak built up a masculine credit balance with her, like a savings account at the bank. Then one day you waste a little of that money on a wuss impulse, but you stiil have some left , OK?
GEnerally,the bigger the chump behavior, the bigger the withdrawal. IN the early days of a connection with a woman it is possible to blow all your savings quickly and wind up overdrawn ,in which case you are done. Or in the FZ.
IF I were you I would revert to doing what you did best in the first few weeks and build up your account again until it cancels out the wuss debit.