Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
good analogyjophil28 said:Look, it is difficult to know what is in any one particular woman's mind after a wuss outburst..What would be a deal breaker for one woman is just a mild blip to another. But know this, wuss behavior is always incompatible with dominant behavior.
I look at it this way - your actions before the insecurity ourbreak built up a masculine credit balance with her, like a savings account at the bank. Then one day you waste a little of that money on a wuss impulse, but you stiil have some left , OK?
GEnerally,the bigger the chump behavior, the bigger the withdrawal. IN the early days of a connection with a woman it is possible to blow all your savings quickly and wind up overdrawn ,in which case you are done. Or in the FZ.
IF I were you I would revert to doing what you did best in the first few weeks and build up your account again until it cancels out the wuss debit.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hahah i love this analogyjophil28 said:Look, it is difficult to know what is in any one particular woman's mind after a wuss outburst..What would be a deal breaker for one woman is just a mild blip to another. But know this, wuss behavior is always incompatible with dominant behavior.
I look at it this way - your actions before the insecurity ourbreak built up a masculine credit balance with her, like a savings account at the bank. Then one day you waste a little of that money on a wuss impulse, but you stiil have some left , OK?
GEnerally,the bigger the chump behavior, the bigger the withdrawal. IN the early days of a connection with a woman it is possible to blow all your savings quickly and wind up overdrawn ,in which case you are done. Or in the FZ.
IF I were you I would revert to doing what you did best in the first few weeks and build up your account again until it cancels out the wuss debit.