Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Gary Busey kisses Jennifer Garner on the red carpet wtf?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't know, but I wouldn't want to be Ben Affleck in that situation. Can you imagine having to confront Gary Busey? :eek: Busey is a lose cannon and there is no telling what kind of crazy sh!t he would do during a fight.
 

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gary busey is awesome.

if everyone in the world were like gary busey none of the plumbing would work, we'd have no electricty and everything would be falling apart, but it would be a damn entertaining world to live in none the less.

gary busey is someone who doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks and is at one with the absurdity of life.

he's lucky he made it as an actor though, because he'd otherwise probably be a bum on the street.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't worry, some of you are already creeping out women, just by being yourselves. No need to emulate mr. Busey.
 

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I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
 

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dakota said:
I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
Is this what you're talking about? http://youtube.com/watch?v=UjaQkUbPbHE
 

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i bet you a guy like busey would be one of the best friends you could ever have.

he seems like the kind of guy that would help anyone out.

yes he's crazy, but i think he just gets a kick out of making people feel uncomfortable and ruffling their feathers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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