"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gary Busey kisses Jennifer Garner on the red carpet wtf?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know, but I wouldn't want to be Ben Affleck in that situation. Can you imagine having to confront Gary Busey? :eek: Busey is a lose cannon and there is no telling what kind of crazy sh!t he would do during a fight.
 

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gary busey is awesome.

if everyone in the world were like gary busey none of the plumbing would work, we'd have no electricty and everything would be falling apart, but it would be a damn entertaining world to live in none the less.

gary busey is someone who doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks and is at one with the absurdity of life.

he's lucky he made it as an actor though, because he'd otherwise probably be a bum on the street.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't worry, some of you are already creeping out women, just by being yourselves. No need to emulate mr. Busey.
 

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I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
 

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dakota said:
I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
Is this what you're talking about? http://youtube.com/watch?v=UjaQkUbPbHE
 

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i bet you a guy like busey would be one of the best friends you could ever have.

he seems like the kind of guy that would help anyone out.

yes he's crazy, but i think he just gets a kick out of making people feel uncomfortable and ruffling their feathers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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