"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gary Busey kisses Jennifer Garner on the red carpet wtf?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know, but I wouldn't want to be Ben Affleck in that situation. Can you imagine having to confront Gary Busey? :eek: Busey is a lose cannon and there is no telling what kind of crazy sh!t he would do during a fight.
 

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gary busey is awesome.

if everyone in the world were like gary busey none of the plumbing would work, we'd have no electricty and everything would be falling apart, but it would be a damn entertaining world to live in none the less.

gary busey is someone who doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks and is at one with the absurdity of life.

he's lucky he made it as an actor though, because he'd otherwise probably be a bum on the street.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't worry, some of you are already creeping out women, just by being yourselves. No need to emulate mr. Busey.
 

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I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
 

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dakota said:
I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
Is this what you're talking about? http://youtube.com/watch?v=UjaQkUbPbHE
 

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i bet you a guy like busey would be one of the best friends you could ever have.

he seems like the kind of guy that would help anyone out.

yes he's crazy, but i think he just gets a kick out of making people feel uncomfortable and ruffling their feathers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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