"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gary Busey kisses Jennifer Garner on the red carpet wtf?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know, but I wouldn't want to be Ben Affleck in that situation. Can you imagine having to confront Gary Busey? :eek: Busey is a lose cannon and there is no telling what kind of crazy sh!t he would do during a fight.
 

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gary busey is awesome.

if everyone in the world were like gary busey none of the plumbing would work, we'd have no electricty and everything would be falling apart, but it would be a damn entertaining world to live in none the less.

gary busey is someone who doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks and is at one with the absurdity of life.

he's lucky he made it as an actor though, because he'd otherwise probably be a bum on the street.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't worry, some of you are already creeping out women, just by being yourselves. No need to emulate mr. Busey.
 

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I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
 

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dakota said:
I must say that we had Gary do a presentation at the HS that I teach at a few weeks ago.. and well.... he was by everyones agreement the WORST speaker we have had in quite a while here.
Is this what you're talking about? http://youtube.com/watch?v=UjaQkUbPbHE
 

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i bet you a guy like busey would be one of the best friends you could ever have.

he seems like the kind of guy that would help anyone out.

yes he's crazy, but i think he just gets a kick out of making people feel uncomfortable and ruffling their feathers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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