"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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5 years ago seeing a profile like this was rare, now it's the norm crazy how fast things have changed
I remember 13 years ago talking to a hot blond at the restaurant about feminism she had no clue what it was
Now these chicks are engulfed in this crap, I remember a 24 year old who I was dating earlier this year who identified as queer yet she was begging to get stuffed all the time like a turkey make it make sense
 

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5 years ago seeing a profile like this was rare, now it's the norm crazy how fast things have changed
I remember 13 years ago talking to a hot blond at the restaurant about feminism she had no clue what it was
Now these chicks are engulfed in this crap, I remember a 24 year old who I was dating earlier this year who identified as queer yet she was begging to get stuffed all the time like a turkey make it make sense
Typical OLD trash. Ugly as well like most OLD women
 

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Frankly, there is some quality in OLD if you actually get your golden ratio correct - remember if you know how to swipe, you see different women. Most of you facks probably actually only DO see trash.

It takes a while to learn how to deal with the algorithms, and most just don't have the ability to figure out what works and what doesn't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Frankly, there is some quality in OLD if you actually get your golden ratio correct - remember if you know how to swipe, you see different women. Most of you facks probably actually only DO see trash.

It takes a while to learn how to deal with the algorithms, and most just don't have the ability to figure out what works and what doesn't.
The main thing is paying for exposure ime. Otherwise you're hustling to constantly create new accounts for fresh elo. Sure you can use the very best pic of yourself that's possible, but then you're dealing with in-person disappointment which is a big hurdle if the target isn't of genuinely high interest.
 

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Frankly, there is some quality in OLD if you actually get your golden ratio correct - remember if you know how to swipe, you see different women. Most of you facks probably actually only DO see trash.

It takes a while to learn how to deal with the algorithms, and most just don't have the ability to figure out what works and what doesn't.
In my experience, if you find an adjustable 7 with her stuff together you're golden, In my experience just because a chick is hot doesn't make her quality, a lot of hot chicks where I live are either nutty or major slores. Obviously everywhere is different and not every guy has my experience but i figured out really fast "wow she is hot why is she here?" and it's typically

1, she is nutty
2. she is a major slore
3. single mother
4. all of the above
 

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In my experience, if you find an adjustable 7 with her stuff together you're golden, In my experience just because a chick is hot doesn't make her quality, a lot of hot chicks where I live are either nutty or major slores. Obviously everywhere is different and not every guy has my experience but i figured out really fast "wow she is hot why is she here?" and it's typically

1, she is nutty
2. she is a major slore
3. single mother
4. all of the above
I agree! Usually if shes "hot" which is getting more rare post covid lockdown on OLD she's nutty or a single mom. But before Covid hit there was more hotties on OLD, BUT most of them were nutty! One was easily an HB9 I went on a date with, hottest within 60 miles on Match and she was a gold digger and nuts. Again, I was questioning why she was on OLD and WHY she drove such a long way to meet me. Before covid I was more serious with OLD and putting more time in it. Got lots of numbers and some dates. Nearly all the women had some kind of baggage. Either gold digger, career, or just plain crazy. Didn't go on many dates with single moms. Was able to avoid that. I only interacted with 6.5 and above. All these women if they were not nutty with baggage wouldn't need to use OLD.
 

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This is exactly why I don't use dating apps. Like I stated, I experimented with dating apps in order to find 'rope bunnies' outside my usual social circles, but there were a lot of scammers and validation seekers trying to get you to join their OF or TikTok. And if they were real, they were often mental cases.

That's why I prefer to meet in person, especially if someone approaches me online.
ONe mental case was only a 6.5 I exchanged numbers with. She went nuts on me because it was midnight and I said I had to go to bed, because you know I have to wake up and WORK in the morning. Set her off. Then 6 months later I saw her on my counties clerk of courts FB page they posted pics of recent marriages. She married some 65 year old looking guy LMAO.
 

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I agree! Usually if shes "hot" which is getting more rare post covid lockdown on OLD she's nutty or a single mom. But before Covid hit there was more hotties on OLD, BUT most of them were nutty! One was easily an HB9 I went on a date with, hottest within 60 miles on Match and she was a gold digger and nuts. Again, I was questioning why she was on OLD and WHY she drove such a long way to meet me. Before covid I was more serious with OLD and putting more time in it. Got lots of numbers and some dates. Nearly all the women had some kind of baggage. Either gold digger, career, or just plain crazy. Didn't go on many dates with single moms. Was able to avoid that. I only interacted with 6.5 and above. All these women if they were not nutty with baggage wouldn't need to use OLD.
Yup this is why I always laugh when guys try to say the same women you meet OLD are the same IRL the quality is overall superior not just in looks and quality. If you're meeting women at walmart then I understand but there certain areas where the quality blows OLD out of the water i.e. fashion shows, high end house parties, art festivals, heck even at certain churches
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yup this is why I always laugh when guys try to say the same women you meet OLD are the same IRL the quality is overall superior not just in looks and quality. If you're meeting women at walmart then I understand but there certain areas where the quality blows OLD out of the water i.e. fashion shows, high end house parties, art festivals, heck even at certain churches
That's the thing. Post lockdown, sure people are fatter these days, but I still see a lot more attractive women out and about than I do on OLD now which is full of fatties, tats, or peircings. That's even living in an old people's region as well. I still see far more cute girls than I ever did on OLD so that's a load of BS.
 

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Sometimes it's good to give points for being honest, this time is not.
Men look at her profile and think, "how bad could it be to be able to spread those sexy legs ...".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.
It's OVER for Oil&GasExplorationCels.
 

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Guys, let's keep this thread to its intended purpose: choose screenshots from OLD and post them. If you want to discuss OLD, please, please, please start your own threads; there are plenty already out there discussing OLD.
 

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No face pics? Body?
Its the way the screen cap took it i guess since i was trying to get her entire profile in it.

Face was about hb6 but teeth were not nice. Has multiple kids, post wall and bad teeth and is making demands.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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