Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Even at 65, compared to the market here she’s more attractive than many younger chicks. Sad reality. When I talk to these women, which sometimes I do they say that the guys all say the same things:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Which one is the plane?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why would men under 150 be initiating contact with a 65 year old woman?
Bro I don't wanna be with a girl who brags about how not-strong she is. Nothing worse than "empowered" women who aren't actually powerful.
Yeah I was expecting a response like this. Honestly i'm going to reiterate what I said: as small as it may seem, this is an example of something not something not so trivial or trite to ignore. I'm sick of this passive attitude society has cultivated. We need cultural QC. When I see BS I'm going to call it out, and I expect people to do the same for me.
Just let them say their delusional schit and tease them about it. You can defuse one really quick that way.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I get that, your "serious" comment makes more sense in this context...I suppose it's too difficult for me to move beyond contempt when dealing with certain types of people. I don't actually think it's me being too serious but rather a lack of patience to deal with low quality people. I wish I had more of a manipulative bend, out of the dark triad traits I think machiavellianism is really underrated and probably the only one I would ever consciously want to cultivate.
Honestly I don't even want to fvck girls who annoy me like that, they make me sick and the second I nut I want them ****ing gone. But if you can tolerate it, all the power to you.I agree and am the same in my thought process, with one exception: I get the notch first (if they pass the boner test) and THEN I call them out. They usually are better sports after getting facked half to death.
Why would you even have this conversation with a woman over a swipe app? Sounds like a giant waste of time that would not result in getting laid.
Wow! I'm sure the guys are lined up to hang with her. Maybe she should go to the dentist instead of worrying about the environment.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nice watch! LOL Yes you are correct! There is a God.
Does she claim she is 44? I think she is much older. Like 52ish. Zoom in on her neck, eyes, and armpits.
She's got a great body but, you're right, on closer inspection, she looks a fair bit older than 44.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
