Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Have you see a lot of Bay Area men? They are dweebish, outnumber women drastically, and are thirsty for any sort of vagina.
That's what tends to happen to men in blue states. I always like to say that the surest way to tell I'm in a blue state is when I walk down the street and most of the men look like I could beat the crap out of them in five seconds. The same is true for France
 

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Supposedly she is in a "non-monogaous relationship". Perhaps her husband is one of those guys that enjoy seeing his wife getting f**ked by another guy(s). This wouldn't have happened on a widespread scale 10 or 20 years ago. Indeed, the Western World is getting more and more degenerate and men more and more cucked. These two factors go hand in hand.
I'm not a Christian, but these people need Jesus. And God. And Krishna. And Wotan. And Buddha
 

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Ethical non-monogamy = my boyfriend lets me fvck other dudes because he's desperate
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have you see a lot of Bay Area men? They are dweebish, outnumber women drastically, and are thirsty for any sort of vagina.
This is everywhere, not just in the Bay Area.

People love to rip on NorCal, it's ok, I do too.

And the thirst is real EVERYWHERE.
That's what tends to happen to men in blue states. I always like to say that the surest way to tell I'm in a blue state is when I walk down the street and most of the men look like I could beat the crap out of them in five seconds. The same is true for France
The San Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.

The biggest problem with the Bay Area is the overabundance of sausage, but it's not the only problem.

The people in general are weird there. On the male side, there are too many autistic/aspie male tech workers. Also, there is an overabundance of East and South Asian men, many of whom of tech workers and have poor social skills too. East and South Asian men have a difficult time dating outside their race/ethnicity. On the female side, there are a lot of feminists/careerists/SJWs. When the male side and the female side are considered, it's no wonder that there are not a lot of good matches.

In the Bay Area, an oddball feminist/SJW woman who is a 5 at best can get sex from multiple men in a poly relationship.

The careerist White women often are childless late into life. Below is a thread about a career-first Bay Area woman.


There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.

There are more feminized guys in bluer states. Blue collar guys in Midland and Odessa won't look like soft Washington DC, Seattle, or San Francisco, but they are likely to be thirsty and simp due to the overabundance of sausage.
 

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The San Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.

The biggest problem with the Bay Area is the overabundance of sausage, but it's not the only problem.

The people in general are weird there. On the male side, there are too many autistic/aspie male tech workers. Also, there is an overabundance of East and South Asian men, many of whom of tech workers and have poor social skills too. East and South Asian men have a difficult time dating outside their race/ethnicity. On the female side, there are a lot of feminists/careerists/SJWs. When the male side and the female side are considered, it's no wonder that there are not a lot of good matches.

In the Bay Area, an oddball feminist/SJW woman who is a 5 at best can get sex from multiple men in a poly relationship.

The careerist White women often are childless late into life. Below is a thread about a career-first Bay Area woman.


There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.

There are more feminized guys in bluer states. Blue collar guys in Midland and Odessa won't look like soft Washington DC, Seattle, or San Francisco, but they are likely to be thirsty and simp due to the overabundance of sausage.
Lots of steer in both Midland and SF.
 

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@SW15 do you live the SF Bay Area?

ThSan Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.

The biggest problem with the Bay Area is the overabundance of sausage, but it's not the only problem.

The people in general are weird there. On the male side, there are too many autistic/aspie male tech workers. Also, there is an overabundance of East and South Asian men, many of whom of tech workers and have poor social skills too. East and South Asian men have a difficult time dating outside their race/ethnicity. On the female side, there are a lot of feminists/careerists/SJWs. When the male side and the female side are considered, it's no wonder that there are not a lot of good matches.

In the Bay Area, an oddball feminist/SJW woman who is a 5 at best can get sex from multiple men in a poly relationship.

The careerist White women often are childless late into life. Below is a thread about a career-first Bay Area woman.


There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.

There are more feminized guys in bluer states. Blue collar guys in Midland and Odessa won't look like soft Washington DC, Seattle, or San Francisco, but they are likely to be thirsty and simp due to the overabundance of sausage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can I ask how you have developed such a detailed opinion of what the dating scene is here?
Reading stuff online. There's plenty of content online about the dating scene of most major cities.

I know my own city better than the San Francisco Bay Area because I have direct experience from living in my own city.
 

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The number of plain or outright ugly women in NorCal claiming to be “ethically non-monogamous” is growing.

I love how this chick says she’s “loving and loyal”. LOYAL?!?!?! What the actual Fock.

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Not gonna lie for 46, she isn't bad, most 46 year old women are build like Michelin man
But one thing about women 40+ is there more delusional than younger women especially older women who use to be hot they still have the same standards as they did at 22 lmfao
 

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My “on the ground” experience in NorCal is different, but I’m playing in an older age band than most here.

Historically it has been a shyte show here for me, I do so much better in other non-coastal 1st tier cities, like amazingly better.

Recently, however I’ve been having a very good run of options. I’ve shed two plates and replaced them with new/higher quality, it goes in cycles.

Again, yes the sf bay sucks arse unless you’re model quality and have deep pockets or some sort of niche game (me).
 

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another one with the thousand c0ck stare..no wonder..another open marriage/open relationship wh0re.
Physically attractive older woman but likely a royal pain in romantic interactions started on tech-based platforms. I can imagine there'd be a ton of drama in any interaction with her.
There is a deep rabbit hole on this one....bottom line is that she's exactly what you'd expect.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tinder, the gift that keeps on giving. She’s got a rocking body, but her husband needs to be shot for letting her get railed by other men.

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You guys can have your 22 year olds. This is what 52 can look like and your damn right I’m going to try like mofo to hit that:
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^ For most guys the main allure physically of older women is the bigger rack, but this speaks to the advantage (and necessity tbh) of acting on your fetishes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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