She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's what tends to happen to men in blue states. I always like to say that the surest way to tell I'm in a blue state is when I walk down the street and most of the men look like I could beat the crap out of them in five seconds. The same is true for FranceHave you see a lot of Bay Area men? They are dweebish, outnumber women drastically, and are thirsty for any sort of vagina.
I'm not a Christian, but these people need Jesus. And God. And Krishna. And Wotan. And BuddhaSupposedly she is in a "non-monogaous relationship". Perhaps her husband is one of those guys that enjoy seeing his wife getting f**ked by another guy(s). This wouldn't have happened on a widespread scale 10 or 20 years ago. Indeed, the Western World is getting more and more degenerate and men more and more cucked. These two factors go hand in hand.
Physically attractive older woman but likely a royal pain in romantic interactions started on tech-based platforms. I can imagine there'd be a ton of drama in any interaction with her.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
More like they are sick in the head. Some guys get off from it.Ethical non-monogamy = my boyfriend lets me fvck other dudes because he's desperate
Have you see a lot of Bay Area men? They are dweebish, outnumber women drastically, and are thirsty for any sort of vagina.
This is everywhere, not just in the Bay Area.
People love to rip on NorCal, it's ok, I do too.
And the thirst is real EVERYWHERE.
The San Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.That's what tends to happen to men in blue states. I always like to say that the surest way to tell I'm in a blue state is when I walk down the street and most of the men look like I could beat the crap out of them in five seconds. The same is true for France
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Lots of steer in both Midland and SF.The San Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.
The biggest problem with the Bay Area is the overabundance of sausage, but it's not the only problem.
The people in general are weird there. On the male side, there are too many autistic/aspie male tech workers. Also, there is an overabundance of East and South Asian men, many of whom of tech workers and have poor social skills too. East and South Asian men have a difficult time dating outside their race/ethnicity. On the female side, there are a lot of feminists/careerists/SJWs. When the male side and the female side are considered, it's no wonder that there are not a lot of good matches.
In the Bay Area, an oddball feminist/SJW woman who is a 5 at best can get sex from multiple men in a poly relationship.
The careerist White women often are childless late into life. Below is a thread about a career-first Bay Area woman.
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Welcome to Northern California. Now to see all the replies about "she's an old hag that's seen more cawk than a urinal at Grand Central Station"... But seriously, she's 50 and wants a baby?!www.sosuave.net
There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.
There are more feminized guys in bluer states. Blue collar guys in Midland and Odessa won't look like soft Washington DC, Seattle, or San Francisco, but they are likely to be thirsty and simp due to the overabundance of sausage.
ThSan Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.
The biggest problem with the Bay Area is the overabundance of sausage, but it's not the only problem.
The people in general are weird there. On the male side, there are too many autistic/aspie male tech workers. Also, there is an overabundance of East and South Asian men, many of whom of tech workers and have poor social skills too. East and South Asian men have a difficult time dating outside their race/ethnicity. On the female side, there are a lot of feminists/careerists/SJWs. When the male side and the female side are considered, it's no wonder that there are not a lot of good matches.
In the Bay Area, an oddball feminist/SJW woman who is a 5 at best can get sex from multiple men in a poly relationship.
The careerist White women often are childless late into life. Below is a thread about a career-first Bay Area woman.
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Oh you guys are gunna love this...
Welcome to Northern California. Now to see all the replies about "she's an old hag that's seen more cawk than a urinal at Grand Central Station"... But seriously, she's 50 and wants a baby?!www.sosuave.net
There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.
There are more feminized guys in bluer states. Blue collar guys in Midland and Odessa won't look like soft Washington DC, Seattle, or San Francisco, but they are likely to be thirsty and simp due to the overabundance of sausage.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Can I ask how you have developed such a detailed opinion of what the dating scene is here?
Reading stuff online. There's plenty of content online about the dating scene of most major cities.Can I ask how you have developed such a detailed opinion of what the dating scene is here?
Not gonna lie for 46, she isn't bad, most 46 year old women are build like Michelin manThe number of plain or outright ugly women in NorCal claiming to be “ethically non-monogamous” is growing.
I love how this chick says she’s “loving and loyal”. LOYAL?!?!?! What the actual Fock.
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another one with the thousand c0ck stare..no wonder..another open marriage/open relationship wh0re.
There is a deep rabbit hole on this one....bottom line is that she's exactly what you'd expect.Physically attractive older woman but likely a royal pain in romantic interactions started on tech-based platforms. I can imagine there'd be a ton of drama in any interaction with her.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Take a look at the double chin..so sexyTinder, the gift that keeps on giving. She’s got a rocking body, but her husband needs to be shot for letting her get railed by other men.
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.