You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's what tends to happen to men in blue states. I always like to say that the surest way to tell I'm in a blue state is when I walk down the street and most of the men look like I could beat the crap out of them in five seconds. The same is true for FranceHave you see a lot of Bay Area men? They are dweebish, outnumber women drastically, and are thirsty for any sort of vagina.
I'm not a Christian, but these people need Jesus. And God. And Krishna. And Wotan. And BuddhaSupposedly she is in a "non-monogaous relationship". Perhaps her husband is one of those guys that enjoy seeing his wife getting f**ked by another guy(s). This wouldn't have happened on a widespread scale 10 or 20 years ago. Indeed, the Western World is getting more and more degenerate and men more and more cucked. These two factors go hand in hand.
Physically attractive older woman but likely a royal pain in romantic interactions started on tech-based platforms. I can imagine there'd be a ton of drama in any interaction with her.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
More like they are sick in the head. Some guys get off from it.Ethical non-monogamy = my boyfriend lets me fvck other dudes because he's desperate
Have you see a lot of Bay Area men? They are dweebish, outnumber women drastically, and are thirsty for any sort of vagina.
This is everywhere, not just in the Bay Area.
People love to rip on NorCal, it's ok, I do too.
And the thirst is real EVERYWHERE.
The San Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.That's what tends to happen to men in blue states. I always like to say that the surest way to tell I'm in a blue state is when I walk down the street and most of the men look like I could beat the crap out of them in five seconds. The same is true for France
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Lots of steer in both Midland and SF.The San Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.
The biggest problem with the Bay Area is the overabundance of sausage, but it's not the only problem.
The people in general are weird there. On the male side, there are too many autistic/aspie male tech workers. Also, there is an overabundance of East and South Asian men, many of whom of tech workers and have poor social skills too. East and South Asian men have a difficult time dating outside their race/ethnicity. On the female side, there are a lot of feminists/careerists/SJWs. When the male side and the female side are considered, it's no wonder that there are not a lot of good matches.
In the Bay Area, an oddball feminist/SJW woman who is a 5 at best can get sex from multiple men in a poly relationship.
The careerist White women often are childless late into life. Below is a thread about a career-first Bay Area woman.
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Welcome to Northern California. Now to see all the replies about "she's an old hag that's seen more cawk than a urinal at Grand Central Station"... But seriously, she's 50 and wants a baby?!www.sosuave.net
There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.
There are more feminized guys in bluer states. Blue collar guys in Midland and Odessa won't look like soft Washington DC, Seattle, or San Francisco, but they are likely to be thirsty and simp due to the overabundance of sausage.
ThSan Francisco Bay Area is one of the worst mating environments for men in North America.
The biggest problem with the Bay Area is the overabundance of sausage, but it's not the only problem.
The people in general are weird there. On the male side, there are too many autistic/aspie male tech workers. Also, there is an overabundance of East and South Asian men, many of whom of tech workers and have poor social skills too. East and South Asian men have a difficult time dating outside their race/ethnicity. On the female side, there are a lot of feminists/careerists/SJWs. When the male side and the female side are considered, it's no wonder that there are not a lot of good matches.
In the Bay Area, an oddball feminist/SJW woman who is a 5 at best can get sex from multiple men in a poly relationship.
The careerist White women often are childless late into life. Below is a thread about a career-first Bay Area woman.
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Oh you guys are gunna love this...
Welcome to Northern California. Now to see all the replies about "she's an old hag that's seen more cawk than a urinal at Grand Central Station"... But seriously, she's 50 and wants a baby?!www.sosuave.net
There are plenty of thirsty men in red states too. Midland-Odessa, TX is an example of a bad mating environment in a red state. There is an overabundance of sausage in Midland-Odessa because there's a lot of oil and gas exploration near Midland and Odessa.
There are more feminized guys in bluer states. Blue collar guys in Midland and Odessa won't look like soft Washington DC, Seattle, or San Francisco, but they are likely to be thirsty and simp due to the overabundance of sausage.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Can I ask how you have developed such a detailed opinion of what the dating scene is here?
Reading stuff online. There's plenty of content online about the dating scene of most major cities.Can I ask how you have developed such a detailed opinion of what the dating scene is here?
Not gonna lie for 46, she isn't bad, most 46 year old women are build like Michelin manThe number of plain or outright ugly women in NorCal claiming to be “ethically non-monogamous” is growing.
I love how this chick says she’s “loving and loyal”. LOYAL?!?!?! What the actual Fock.
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another one with the thousand c0ck stare..no wonder..another open marriage/open relationship wh0re.
There is a deep rabbit hole on this one....bottom line is that she's exactly what you'd expect.Physically attractive older woman but likely a royal pain in romantic interactions started on tech-based platforms. I can imagine there'd be a ton of drama in any interaction with her.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Take a look at the double chin..so sexyTinder, the gift that keeps on giving. She’s got a rocking body, but her husband needs to be shot for letting her get railed by other men.
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.