heres what you did wrong:
1. what you said was scary
2. you just met her, you arent to be c+f right off the bat, not until she needs to be neutralized
3. conversation subject is too sensitive and serious especially for talking online
4. you just met her
5. you got owned, she instantly labled her self out of your league, she hangs out with jocks etc....
6. you were judging her
7. although what you said MIGHT HAVE been ****y it WAS NOT funny at all.
8. you WERE judging her.
9. "Sweet talking" is not a DJ TOOL! WHERE DID YOU READ ABOUT SWEET TALKING? WHAT KIND OF ***** ARE YOU? TO SWEET TALK A GIRL RIGHT AWAY. NOT ONLY IS THAT CREEPY BUT THE BlTCH HAS TO EARN IT! SHE DID NOT EARN IT? YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT, YOU ARE 10x BETTER THAN THAT STUPID BlTCH. DONT GIVE UP STUFF FREELY LIKE THAT. HANG ON TO THAT **** AS MUCH AS A GIRL'S HANG ON TO THIER VIRGINITY.
heres are some examples of c+f from aim convos that i have right now.
me: did you listen to that song (trying to connect interest)
her: no i didnt bother myself to listen to it (she thinks shes on a pedastool)
me: good, its not not gothic, i dont think youd like it (BAM! KNOCKED OFF HER PEDASTOOL by means of teasing
her: -.-
her: meanie
her: stereotypical meanie
(because i tease her about being gothic)
stupidbltch: do you think im good looking?
me: youre ugly as hell (she was fishing for a complement i couldnt give her one)
me: j/k
(this would be mean if i werent kidding)
stupidbltch: thats what i thought
me: no you're pretty hot actually (yeah heres your complement)
me: for a sophomore (hahaha you thought i was serious. youre still a stupid sophomore)
I DO NOT SUGGEST talking online in the first place, its just a bad addiction of mine. also a big no-no is meeting someone online, do you realize how much of a puss that makes you look like? to have to hide behing a computer screen when you meet someone.
you have a long path ahead of you, dont get discouraged, keep applying, apply in person is 1000x more effective.