Abethatguy
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Right now I’m just going to avoid reaching out to her, but not in a p**** way, just a mature way. No spite, nothing. We’ll see how that goes
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Friendzoned me after we already banged, saying she doesn't want to get emotionally attached to me because her ex is in her life
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Abethatguy
Don Juan
Right now I’m out hanging with an attractive female friend whom she never met, posted it on IG to demonstrate SMV
Abethatguy
Don Juan
lol how do I make next time happen?
also I doubt it was the sex, her ex was a virgin before her
Abethatguy
Don Juan
Definitely. We used to play fight before ****ing, with hair pulling, slapping, spanking, me manhandling her etc
lamath
Master Don Juan
Control agression, but always be careful to not over do it. Careful calibration.
From experience it make them wet af
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Abethatguy
Don Juan
What are the chances that we **** again if I play my cards right, realistically
BURT MCQUEEN
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You're not her priority anymore in her priorities rank. her Interest faded away, It doesn't necessarily means she's banging her ex, it could just an exscuse to covertly say you ain't her priority anymore, there's something else going on better and more exciting in her life. Maybe you did something wrong and the competition anxiety is gone, maybe you puked everything about you and your veil of mistery is gone and she found a better prospect.....,
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She's the low hanging fruit type of woman who is like a turd you flush down the toilet. Treat accordingly. Aim higher.
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@OP this why every guru in red pill or pickup say ABUNDANCE.
YOU ARE CUCKED.
OP, man up. Grow a pair of nuts. #nextSet.
I lead. She follows or next. Repeat till dead or **** falls off.
Compliance is GOAT STATUS.
High interest level is indicative of her following your lead. Any ambiguity = #next
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Abethatguy
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her ex definitely is in the picture, all our friends know about him, he knows about me, and he calls her repeatedly when I’m with her. I know much more about her than she does about me honestly, and I’ve known her for half a year at this point
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I get it "she's banging strangers why wont she bang me?" your ego is hurt.
Personally, I would have been out at the "she's banging strangers" but, apparently, you're only going after the lay
this is the kind of crap you have to muddle thru when you only go after the lay
Personally, I would have been out at the "she's banging strangers" but, apparently, you're only going after the lay
this is the kind of crap you have to muddle thru when you only go after the lay
Abethatguy
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I’m not chasing after her or anything, I haven’t talked to her since she last came over. I’m spinning plates but wanna know how to manage this one
BURT MCQUEEN
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Girls comunicate covertly. Girls gotta know 0.1% about you, just enough to trigger their imagination , they costantly got to stay in a state of anxiety and gussing. It's not who knows more, it's about familiarity, it's about how much crap about you you told to her.
That's cuckolding, and probably she's fvcking an alpha (or as she called " strangers") that neither you and her ex is talking about
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BURT MCQUEEN
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You ain't spinning this plate, it dropped
YOu ain't applying plates theory, read it, and swallow the red pill. If you red and understood the plates theory, why you made this thread?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Abethatguy
Don Juan
All I asked, is if going no contact will change anything, that’s really all I’m asking
BURT MCQUEEN
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it's better of what you're doing know for sure
Abethatguy
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Well I’m not doing anything right now.
I’m living life, gyming, and not texting her at all, what else should I do?
Quite possibly will change her attitude if she is attracted to you enough.
If she is, the silence will make her imagination run wild as she sees you slipping away from her, she will approach you then and you call the shots…
If she’s not that hot on you, she’s a goner…
Abethatguy
Don Juan
From the beginning she’s been really touchy feely with me, she told her friends she wanted to **** me before we banged, and she’s stated that she thinks I’m attractive, I don’t think any of that disappeared
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.