Friendzoned me after we already banged, saying she doesn't want to get emotionally attached to me because her ex is in her life

[Abethatguy]

Right now I’m just going to avoid reaching out to her, but not in a p**** way, just a mature way. No spite, nothing. We’ll see how that goes

 

[Abethatguy]

Right now I’m out hanging with an attractive female friend whom she never met, posted it on IG to demonstrate SMV

 

[Abethatguy]

Secs sucked. Fck better next time.

lol how do I make next time happen?

also I doubt it was the sex, her ex was a virgin before her

 

[Abethatguy]

I dont know but if you fck her again. More aggression. I dont condone hurting women at all but make her feel that you could easily by the way you fck her. Strength.

Definitely. We used to play fight before ****ing, with hair pulling, slapping, spanking, me manhandling her etc

 

[lamath]

I dont know but if you fck her again. More aggression. I dont condone hurting women at all but make her feel that you could easily by the way you fck her. Strength.

Control agression, but always be careful to not over do it. Careful calibration.


From experience it make them wet af

 

[Abethatguy]

What are the chances that we **** again if I play my cards right, realistically

 

[BURT MCQUEEN]

And she's banging strangers

You're not her priority anymore in her priorities rank. her Interest faded away, It doesn't necessarily means she's banging her ex, it could just an exscuse to covertly say you ain't her priority anymore, there's something else going on better and more exciting in her life. Maybe you did something wrong and the competition anxiety is gone, maybe you puked everything about you and your veil of mistery is gone and she found a better prospect.....,

 

[BURT MCQUEEN]

What are the chances that we **** again if I play my cards right, realistically

NEXT

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

And she's banging strangers

She's the low hanging fruit type of woman who is like a turd you flush down the toilet. Treat accordingly. Aim higher.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

You're not her priority anymore in her priorities rank. her Interest faded away, It doesn't necessarily means she's banging her ex, it could just an exscuse to covertly say you ain't her priority anymore, there's something else going on better and more exciting in her life. Maybe you did something wrong and the competition anxiety is gone, maybe you puked everything about you and your veil of mistery is gone and she founf a better prospect.....,

+1

@OP this why every guru in red pill or pickup say ABUNDANCE.

YOU ARE CUCKED.

OP, man up. Grow a pair of nuts. #nextSet.

I lead. She follows or next. Repeat till dead or **** falls off.

Compliance is GOAT STATUS.

High interest level is indicative of her following your lead. Any ambiguity = #next

 

[Abethatguy]

You're not her priority anymore in her priorities rank. her Interest faded away, It doesn't necessarily means she's banging her ex, it could just an exscuse to covertly say you ain't her priority anymore, there's something else going on better and more exciting in her life. Maybe you did something wrong and the competition anxiety is gone, maybe you puked everything about you and your veil of mistery is gone and she found a better prospect.....,

her ex definitely is in the picture, all our friends know about him, he knows about me, and he calls her repeatedly when I’m with her. I know much more about her than she does about me honestly, and I’ve known her for half a year at this point

 

[sazc]

I get it "she's banging strangers why wont she bang me?" your ego is hurt.
Personally, I would have been out at the "she's banging strangers" but, apparently, you're only going after the lay

this is the kind of crap you have to muddle thru when you only go after the lay

 

[Abethatguy]

+1

@OP this why every guru in red pill or pickup say ABUNDANCE.

YOU ARE CUCKED.

OP, man up. Grow a pair of nuts. #nextSet.

I lead. She follows or next. Repeat till dead or **** falls off.

Compliance is GOAT STATUS.

High interest level is indicative of her following your lead. Any ambiguity = #next

I’m not chasing after her or anything, I haven’t talked to her since she last came over. I’m spinning plates but wanna know how to manage this one

 

[BURT MCQUEEN]

her ex definitely is in the picture, all our friends know about him, he knows about me, and he calls her repeatedly when I’m with her. I know much more about her than she does about me honestly, and I’ve known her for half a year at this point

Girls comunicate covertly. Girls gotta know 0.1% about you, just enough to trigger their imagination , they costantly got to stay in a state of anxiety and gussing. It's not who knows more, it's about familiarity, it's about how much crap about you you told to her.

all our friends know about him, he knows about me, and he calls her repeatedly when I’m with her

That's cuckolding, and probably she's fvcking an alpha (or as she called " strangers") that neither you and her ex is talking about

 

[BURT MCQUEEN]

I’m not chasing after her or anything, I haven’t talked to her since she last came over. I’m spinning plates but wanna know how to manage this one

You ain't spinning this plate, it dropped

YOu ain't applying plates theory, read it, and swallow the red pill. If you red and understood the plates theory, why you made this thread?

 

[Abethatguy]

All I asked, is if going no contact will change anything, that’s really all I’m asking

 

[BURT MCQUEEN]

All I asked, is if going no contact will change anything, that’s really all I’m asking

it's better of what you're doing know for sure

 

[Abethatguy]

it's better of what you're doing know for sure

Well I’m not doing anything right now.
I’m living life, gyming, and not texting her at all, what else should I do?

 

[Billtx49]

All I asked, is if going no contact will change anything, that’s really all I’m asking

Quite possibly will change her attitude if she is attracted to you enough.
If she is, the silence will make her imagination run wild as she sees you slipping away from her, she will approach you then and you call the shots…
If she’s not that hot on you, she’s a goner…

 

[Abethatguy]

Quite possibly will change her attitude if she is attracted to you enough.
If she is, the silence will make her imagination run wild as she sees you slipping away from her, she will approach you then and you call the shots…
If she’s not that hot on you, she’s a goner…

From the beginning she’s been really touchy feely with me, she told her friends she wanted to **** me before we banged, and she’s stated that she thinks I’m attractive, I don’t think any of that disappeared