This is actually the most important point of it all. And it probably is missed a lot by a lot of guys simply due to fear of rejection. Don't worry, I use to have the same fear. Then I realized years later that all the girls who were hitting on me in college actually wanted to **** me. I was just too naive to see it or take the chance. It is what is, hindsight is 20/20. All we can do is pass this info along to the younger guys.If she does feel physical attraction you don't have to necessarily make your intentions known right away but, you do have a window to do it... If you act too asexual during this window she will lose attraction for you over time.