“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Friendship with women

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I want to point out that your preferences and assumptions are coloring your commentary here.
definitely yes on this I do that.

good luck, as I said in the past you seem to like your setup and it works for you. as they say, party on :)
 

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It's not a big deal unless you're a newbie who's unplugging. Otherwise, you should be able to deal with a girl you find attractive who's currently unavailable vs. one who is available. That's all there is to it.
agree, from the perspective of the man and the wording you use. the man can manage it or just not worry or think about it, and if the unavailable girl becomes available for just a brief moment one time it's all good. the guy that she is supposed to be with, would not agree. I don't have any problem being a friend to a woman, I have a problem with other men being a friend to any LTR of mine. It is for sure a double standard.
 
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