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Master Don Juan
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I have that one. Play it with your teenagers. Hysterical
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Friendship with women
- Thread starter bat soup
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
definitely yes on this I do that.
good luck, as I said in the past you seem to like your setup and it works for you. as they say, party on
metalwater
Master Don Juan
agree, from the perspective of the man and the wording you use. the man can manage it or just not worry or think about it, and if the unavailable girl becomes available for just a brief moment one time it's all good. the guy that she is supposed to be with, would not agree. I don't have any problem being a friend to a woman, I have a problem with other men being a friend to any LTR of mine. It is for sure a double standard.