"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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trd323

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I have been talking to this girl and we both laugh our asses off when we are together, I kino her and she does the i cant believe you said that smack on my arm. This goes on everytime we are together. My question is. She is a very outgoing girl and has a lot of guy friends because of her personality. What else should I do so that I dont get put into that category? I never call her because we see eachother every other day. And i always make it a point that if she is doing something on the weekend I am also busy. I like this girl a lot. NO Friend Zone.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DonJuanMonk

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Oh you AFC. Just because a girl smacks you on your arm and you feel all giddy cause a girl touches you doesn't mean she likes you. OMG, that girl winked at me. OMG, that girl held my hands. OMG, I'm not having sex with her so all this analyzing makes ZERO FCKING SENSE.
 

trd323

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thanks for the reply, i guess some of us are just born Djs. And i guess the post count did not hint that I am an AFC, and I guess the fact that I am here and want advice also does not make me an afc and that I want to change.
 

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You guys really helped him out here with his questions. Good job. Dipsh!ts. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SynapsyS

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You guys really helped him out here with his questions. Good job. Dipsh!ts.

Hypocrit ;)

Organise a movie or something with her, preferably somewhere quiet though, where you can talk etc. Start making the moves on her, and you'll know pretty quickly how FZ'ed you are, if at all.

Also, you do not say "I like this girl a lot". You say "I'm interested in seeing if she's the kind of person I'd like to get to know more intimately".

Syn.
 

Levrone

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What about asking her what she thinks of you, and in what way?
 

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Originally posted by Levrone
What about asking her what she thinks of you, and in what way?
Please give the DJ bible a read before giving out advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Levrone

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Please give the DJ bible a read before giving out advice.
Why? I read the DJ bible ;) Nothing found what's wrong with that..
 
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