I have been talking to this girl and we both laugh our asses off when we are together, I kino her and she does the i cant believe you said that smack on my arm. This goes on everytime we are together. My question is. She is a very outgoing girl and has a lot of guy friends because of her personality. What else should I do so that I dont get put into that category? I never call her because we see eachother every other day. And i always make it a point that if she is doing something on the weekend I am also busy. I like this girl a lot. NO Friend Zone.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Friendly girls
- Thread starter trd323
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Oh you AFC. Just because a girl smacks you on your arm and you feel all giddy cause a girl touches you doesn't mean she likes you. OMG, that girl winked at me. OMG, that girl held my hands. OMG, I'm not having sex with her so all this analyzing makes ZERO FCKING SENSE.
thanks for the reply, i guess some of us are just born Djs. And i guess the post count did not hint that I am an AFC, and I guess the fact that I am here and want advice also does not make me an afc and that I want to change.
guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
She could be a sunshine girl/attention *****.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SynapsyS
Don Juan
You guys really helped him out here with his questions. Good job. Dipsh!ts.
Hypocrit
Organise a movie or something with her, preferably somewhere quiet though, where you can talk etc. Start making the moves on her, and you'll know pretty quickly how FZ'ed you are, if at all.
Also, you do not say "I like this girl a lot". You say "I'm interested in seeing if she's the kind of person I'd like to get to know more intimately".
Syn.
Hypocrit
Organise a movie or something with her, preferably somewhere quiet though, where you can talk etc. Start making the moves on her, and you'll know pretty quickly how FZ'ed you are, if at all.
Also, you do not say "I like this girl a lot". You say "I'm interested in seeing if she's the kind of person I'd like to get to know more intimately".
Syn.
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