I have been talking to this girl and we both laugh our asses off when we are together, I kino her and she does the i cant believe you said that smack on my arm. This goes on everytime we are together. My question is. She is a very outgoing girl and has a lot of guy friends because of her personality. What else should I do so that I dont get put into that category? I never call her because we see eachother every other day. And i always make it a point that if she is doing something on the weekend I am also busy. I like this girl a lot. NO Friend Zone.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Friendly girls
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Oh you AFC. Just because a girl smacks you on your arm and you feel all giddy cause a girl touches you doesn't mean she likes you. OMG, that girl winked at me. OMG, that girl held my hands. OMG, I'm not having sex with her so all this analyzing makes ZERO FCKING SENSE.
thanks for the reply, i guess some of us are just born Djs. And i guess the post count did not hint that I am an AFC, and I guess the fact that I am here and want advice also does not make me an afc and that I want to change.
guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
She could be a sunshine girl/attention *****.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SynapsyS
Don Juan
You guys really helped him out here with his questions. Good job. Dipsh!ts.
Hypocrit
Organise a movie or something with her, preferably somewhere quiet though, where you can talk etc. Start making the moves on her, and you'll know pretty quickly how FZ'ed you are, if at all.
Also, you do not say "I like this girl a lot". You say "I'm interested in seeing if she's the kind of person I'd like to get to know more intimately".
Syn.
Hypocrit
Organise a movie or something with her, preferably somewhere quiet though, where you can talk etc. Start making the moves on her, and you'll know pretty quickly how FZ'ed you are, if at all.
Also, you do not say "I like this girl a lot". You say "I'm interested in seeing if she's the kind of person I'd like to get to know more intimately".
Syn.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.