I have been talking to this girl and we both laugh our asses off when we are together, I kino her and she does the i cant believe you said that smack on my arm. This goes on everytime we are together. My question is. She is a very outgoing girl and has a lot of guy friends because of her personality. What else should I do so that I dont get put into that category? I never call her because we see eachother every other day. And i always make it a point that if she is doing something on the weekend I am also busy. I like this girl a lot. NO Friend Zone.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Oh you AFC. Just because a girl smacks you on your arm and you feel all giddy cause a girl touches you doesn't mean she likes you. OMG, that girl winked at me. OMG, that girl held my hands. OMG, I'm not having sex with her so all this analyzing makes ZERO FCKING SENSE.
thanks for the reply, i guess some of us are just born Djs. And i guess the post count did not hint that I am an AFC, and I guess the fact that I am here and want advice also does not make me an afc and that I want to change.
guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
She could be a sunshine girl/attention *****.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SynapsyS
Don Juan
You guys really helped him out here with his questions. Good job. Dipsh!ts.
Hypocrit
Organise a movie or something with her, preferably somewhere quiet though, where you can talk etc. Start making the moves on her, and you'll know pretty quickly how FZ'ed you are, if at all.
Also, you do not say "I like this girl a lot". You say "I'm interested in seeing if she's the kind of person I'd like to get to know more intimately".
Syn.
Hypocrit
Organise a movie or something with her, preferably somewhere quiet though, where you can talk etc. Start making the moves on her, and you'll know pretty quickly how FZ'ed you are, if at all.
Also, you do not say "I like this girl a lot". You say "I'm interested in seeing if she's the kind of person I'd like to get to know more intimately".
Syn.
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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.