"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Friend is AFC, gets laid like crazy

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rudra said:
How do you know? Do you have girly vision? Maybe chicks think by this looks that he´s the sultan of twOt himself.
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exactly.

I see it all too often: some guy looks average looking to me, and then when he becomes the topic of conversation by some female friends, they all start saying things like "oh, hes so cute!" or "hes hot". same thing when female frineds are checking out guys on the street.

Most men or poor judges of what the typical girl considers good looking.

So before you say "this guy is average looking and gets ass", please get several female opinions 1st before you label him as average looking.
 
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WTF? Being nice works best for me.

"Nice" is only bad when it's being used as a polite euphemism for "spineless" or something along those lines.
 
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There is nice guys, jerks, and good guys. Your friend sounds like a good guy. If he is getting alot of "A$$" then, he may not be the AFC you say he his. How much are you getting? Maybe, you should take notes from your friend!
 
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MagnuM said:
You are a cynic.
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haha - I won't say for sure until I find out about that money - and the car...:yes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Code: 
All I ever hear on this forum is 
"girls don't like nice guys", you have to be a bad boy.
Who said you have to be a bad boy? :confused:

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I finally asked him how he does it, 
and his response was simply, "act like she's your girlfriend."
Um could your friend be any more vague? :rolleyes:
 
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the only thing coming out here is the fundemental lack of knowing what a DJ is, whichi si ovbious but 90% of the responses here.

A DJ is not a guy in lether with no shirt, all black with spiked hair, that goes around ***** slapping women for the hell of it and degrading men.

you can be, no.. you MUST be respectful, considerate, optomistic, funny, etc to be a true DJ.
 
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Well he's 21, so not that much. 12 bucks an hour I think? We work together

He does seem confident. I mean, he can talk to anybody. Even if she's really hot, he talks to chicks like he's known them for years. It's hard to explain. He's always smiling though. Even as he's talking.

He's funny. We were in the lunch room at work and he ordered a sandwich. He asked the lady to cut it in triangles. She said "No you can do that", and he laughed.
 
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sounds like myself.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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original poster is absolutely stupid

why dont you do a search for the 10000 "you can be nice and not be a nice guy" TIP threads on this site

the only bad "nice" that you shouldn't be is the "desperate, i need to be nice so u'll like me" nice
 
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God_of_getting_layed said:
exactly.

I see it all too often: some guy looks average looking to me, and then when he becomes the topic of conversation by some female friends, they all start saying things like "oh, hes so cute!" or "hes hot". same thing when female frineds are checking out guys on the street.

Most men or poor judges of what the typical girl considers good looking.

So before you say "this guy is average looking and gets ass", please get several female opinions 1st before you label him as average looking.
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girl's go for guys with features. This means if he has nice eyes, A NICE SMILE (which according to this thread, you said he does because he smiles alot), is tall, is muscular, has hot hair, has a hot fashion sense, is rugged manly look, ect ect - YOU as a guy don't consider that to be good looking, but some girls LOVE a guy to look a certain way

get out there to the real world and find out

I personally have been called the following things by girls - ugliest guy in the world, ugly as hell, ugly as ****, ugly, alright, ok looking, cute, handsome, beautiful (yes u read that right), hot, hot as hell, fcuking hot, gorgeous, sexy, very sexy, veryyyyy cute

you get the idea? girl's tastes vary.

p.s. I had an HB4 call me ugly, and I had an hb9 call me hot - my point is proven
 
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