"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friend is AFC, gets laid like crazy

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you know? Do you have girly vision? Maybe chicks think by this looks that he´s the sultan of twOt himself.
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exactly.

I see it all too often: some guy looks average looking to me, and then when he becomes the topic of conversation by some female friends, they all start saying things like "oh, hes so cute!" or "hes hot". same thing when female frineds are checking out guys on the street.

Most men or poor judges of what the typical girl considers good looking.

So before you say "this guy is average looking and gets ass", please get several female opinions 1st before you label him as average looking.
 
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WTF? Being nice works best for me.

"Nice" is only bad when it's being used as a polite euphemism for "spineless" or something along those lines.
 
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There is nice guys, jerks, and good guys. Your friend sounds like a good guy. If he is getting alot of "A$$" then, he may not be the AFC you say he his. How much are you getting? Maybe, you should take notes from your friend!
 
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You are a cynic.
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haha - I won't say for sure until I find out about that money - and the car...:yes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Code: 
All I ever hear on this forum is 
"girls don't like nice guys", you have to be a bad boy.
Who said you have to be a bad boy? :confused:

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I finally asked him how he does it, 
and his response was simply, "act like she's your girlfriend."
Um could your friend be any more vague? :rolleyes:
 
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the only thing coming out here is the fundemental lack of knowing what a DJ is, whichi si ovbious but 90% of the responses here.

A DJ is not a guy in lether with no shirt, all black with spiked hair, that goes around ***** slapping women for the hell of it and degrading men.

you can be, no.. you MUST be respectful, considerate, optomistic, funny, etc to be a true DJ.
 
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Well he's 21, so not that much. 12 bucks an hour I think? We work together

He does seem confident. I mean, he can talk to anybody. Even if she's really hot, he talks to chicks like he's known them for years. It's hard to explain. He's always smiling though. Even as he's talking.

He's funny. We were in the lunch room at work and he ordered a sandwich. He asked the lady to cut it in triangles. She said "No you can do that", and he laughed.
 
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sounds like myself.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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original poster is absolutely stupid

why dont you do a search for the 10000 "you can be nice and not be a nice guy" TIP threads on this site

the only bad "nice" that you shouldn't be is the "desperate, i need to be nice so u'll like me" nice
 
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God_of_getting_layed said:
exactly.

I see it all too often: some guy looks average looking to me, and then when he becomes the topic of conversation by some female friends, they all start saying things like "oh, hes so cute!" or "hes hot". same thing when female frineds are checking out guys on the street.

Most men or poor judges of what the typical girl considers good looking.

So before you say "this guy is average looking and gets ass", please get several female opinions 1st before you label him as average looking.
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girl's go for guys with features. This means if he has nice eyes, A NICE SMILE (which according to this thread, you said he does because he smiles alot), is tall, is muscular, has hot hair, has a hot fashion sense, is rugged manly look, ect ect - YOU as a guy don't consider that to be good looking, but some girls LOVE a guy to look a certain way

get out there to the real world and find out

I personally have been called the following things by girls - ugliest guy in the world, ugly as hell, ugly as ****, ugly, alright, ok looking, cute, handsome, beautiful (yes u read that right), hot, hot as hell, fcuking hot, gorgeous, sexy, very sexy, veryyyyy cute

you get the idea? girl's tastes vary.

p.s. I had an HB4 call me ugly, and I had an hb9 call me hot - my point is proven
 
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