"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Friend is AFC, gets laid like crazy

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rudra said:
How do you know? Do you have girly vision? Maybe chicks think by this looks that he´s the sultan of twOt himself.
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exactly.

I see it all too often: some guy looks average looking to me, and then when he becomes the topic of conversation by some female friends, they all start saying things like "oh, hes so cute!" or "hes hot". same thing when female frineds are checking out guys on the street.

Most men or poor judges of what the typical girl considers good looking.

So before you say "this guy is average looking and gets ass", please get several female opinions 1st before you label him as average looking.
 
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WTF? Being nice works best for me.

"Nice" is only bad when it's being used as a polite euphemism for "spineless" or something along those lines.
 
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There is nice guys, jerks, and good guys. Your friend sounds like a good guy. If he is getting alot of "A$$" then, he may not be the AFC you say he his. How much are you getting? Maybe, you should take notes from your friend!
 
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You are a cynic.
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haha - I won't say for sure until I find out about that money - and the car...:yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Code: 
All I ever hear on this forum is 
"girls don't like nice guys", you have to be a bad boy.
Who said you have to be a bad boy? :confused:

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I finally asked him how he does it, 
and his response was simply, "act like she's your girlfriend."
Um could your friend be any more vague? :rolleyes:
 
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the only thing coming out here is the fundemental lack of knowing what a DJ is, whichi si ovbious but 90% of the responses here.

A DJ is not a guy in lether with no shirt, all black with spiked hair, that goes around ***** slapping women for the hell of it and degrading men.

you can be, no.. you MUST be respectful, considerate, optomistic, funny, etc to be a true DJ.
 
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Well he's 21, so not that much. 12 bucks an hour I think? We work together

He does seem confident. I mean, he can talk to anybody. Even if she's really hot, he talks to chicks like he's known them for years. It's hard to explain. He's always smiling though. Even as he's talking.

He's funny. We were in the lunch room at work and he ordered a sandwich. He asked the lady to cut it in triangles. She said "No you can do that", and he laughed.
 
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sounds like myself.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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original poster is absolutely stupid

why dont you do a search for the 10000 "you can be nice and not be a nice guy" TIP threads on this site

the only bad "nice" that you shouldn't be is the "desperate, i need to be nice so u'll like me" nice
 
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God_of_getting_layed said:
exactly.

I see it all too often: some guy looks average looking to me, and then when he becomes the topic of conversation by some female friends, they all start saying things like "oh, hes so cute!" or "hes hot". same thing when female frineds are checking out guys on the street.

Most men or poor judges of what the typical girl considers good looking.

So before you say "this guy is average looking and gets ass", please get several female opinions 1st before you label him as average looking.
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girl's go for guys with features. This means if he has nice eyes, A NICE SMILE (which according to this thread, you said he does because he smiles alot), is tall, is muscular, has hot hair, has a hot fashion sense, is rugged manly look, ect ect - YOU as a guy don't consider that to be good looking, but some girls LOVE a guy to look a certain way

get out there to the real world and find out

I personally have been called the following things by girls - ugliest guy in the world, ugly as hell, ugly as ****, ugly, alright, ok looking, cute, handsome, beautiful (yes u read that right), hot, hot as hell, fcuking hot, gorgeous, sexy, very sexy, veryyyyy cute

you get the idea? girl's tastes vary.

p.s. I had an HB4 call me ugly, and I had an hb9 call me hot - my point is proven
 
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