"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Friend is AFC, gets laid like crazy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
God_of_getting_layed
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exactly.Rudra said:
I see it all too often: some guy looks average looking to me, and then when he becomes the topic of conversation by some female friends, they all start saying things like "oh, hes so cute!" or "hes hot". same thing when female frineds are checking out guys on the street.
Most men or poor judges of what the typical girl considers good looking.
So before you say "this guy is average looking and gets ass", please get several female opinions 1st before you label him as average looking.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
"Nice" is only bad when it's being used as a polite euphemism for "spineless" or something along those lines.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
All I ever hear on this forum is
"girls don't like nice guys", you have to be a bad boy.
I finally asked him how he does it,
and his response was simply, "act like she's your girlfriend."backbreaker
Master Don Juan
A DJ is not a guy in lether with no shirt, all black with spiked hair, that goes around ***** slapping women for the hell of it and degrading men.
you can be, no.. you MUST be respectful, considerate, optomistic, funny, etc to be a true DJ.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
He does seem confident. I mean, he can talk to anybody. Even if she's really hot, he talks to chicks like he's known them for years. It's hard to explain. He's always smiling though. Even as he's talking.
He's funny. We were in the lunch room at work and he ordered a sandwich. He asked the lady to cut it in triangles. She said "No you can do that", and he laughed.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
why dont you do a search for the 10000 "you can be nice and not be a nice guy" TIP threads on this site
the only bad "nice" that you shouldn't be is the "desperate, i need to be nice so u'll like me" nice
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God_of_getting_layed said:
girl's go for guys with features. This means if he has nice eyes, A NICE SMILE (which according to this thread, you said he does because he smiles alot), is tall, is muscular, has hot hair, has a hot fashion sense, is rugged manly look, ect ect - YOU as a guy don't consider that to be good looking, but some girls LOVE a guy to look a certain way
get out there to the real world and find out
I personally have been called the following things by girls - ugliest guy in the world, ugly as hell, ugly as ****, ugly, alright, ok looking, cute, handsome, beautiful (yes u read that right), hot, hot as hell, fcuking hot, gorgeous, sexy, very sexy, veryyyyy cute
you get the idea? girl's tastes vary.
p.s. I had an HB4 call me ugly, and I had an hb9 call me hot - my point is proven