"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Friend ever Avoided U b/c of gurl?
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
maybe your friend is avoiding you because your an idiot?
more likely, he has more fun with the girl then he has with you..
you post some stupid title with no real message. and you want serious responses.
bluelemond? whats that? a member here? the guy who's avoiding you?
PM.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
How bout you grow a pair and tell him to his face, ****.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no worries, your buddy will be back .
while hes out there in relationship world, you go ahead with your life and find some other things to do and a few other friends to hang with also.
when you start having a ltr your buddy will understand when you dont have time to hang with him alot also.
lol.
if i didn't already know you were female, i'd know after that post.
You'd be surprised with how incorrect that is.
Although its almost logical, in practise, it doesn't happen.
If a guy ditches his best mates for a girl, things will never again be the same.
consider this.
You've been best mates since your 10. and at 18-23 one of you gets a girlfriend. A girl he's known for as little as 2 weeks, and he leaves the friend of 8-13 years behind like a peice of crap. It happens everyday and its not right.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
best thing to do is kick both of those scumbags to the curb. when the relationship fails (oh and it WILL fail) hes gonna be like "boohoo wheres my friends now i dont got a gf no more waahhhhh". then you wont be around, instead you will be doing other pimp **** (hopefully) and he will be left alone...
left alone in a world that has grown cold... so cold...