"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Friend ever Avoided U b/c of gurl?
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
maybe your friend is avoiding you because your an idiot?
more likely, he has more fun with the girl then he has with you..
you post some stupid title with no real message. and you want serious responses.
bluelemond? whats that? a member here? the guy who's avoiding you?
PM.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
How bout you grow a pair and tell him to his face, ****.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no worries, your buddy will be back .
while hes out there in relationship world, you go ahead with your life and find some other things to do and a few other friends to hang with also.
when you start having a ltr your buddy will understand when you dont have time to hang with him alot also.
lol.
if i didn't already know you were female, i'd know after that post.
You'd be surprised with how incorrect that is.
Although its almost logical, in practise, it doesn't happen.
If a guy ditches his best mates for a girl, things will never again be the same.
consider this.
You've been best mates since your 10. and at 18-23 one of you gets a girlfriend. A girl he's known for as little as 2 weeks, and he leaves the friend of 8-13 years behind like a peice of crap. It happens everyday and its not right.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
best thing to do is kick both of those scumbags to the curb. when the relationship fails (oh and it WILL fail) hes gonna be like "boohoo wheres my friends now i dont got a gf no more waahhhhh". then you wont be around, instead you will be doing other pimp **** (hopefully) and he will be left alone...
left alone in a world that has grown cold... so cold...