"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Friend ever Avoided U b/c of gurl?
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
maybe your friend is avoiding you because your an idiot?
more likely, he has more fun with the girl then he has with you..
you post some stupid title with no real message. and you want serious responses.
bluelemond? whats that? a member here? the guy who's avoiding you?
PM.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
How bout you grow a pair and tell him to his face, ****.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no worries, your buddy will be back .
while hes out there in relationship world, you go ahead with your life and find some other things to do and a few other friends to hang with also.
when you start having a ltr your buddy will understand when you dont have time to hang with him alot also.
lol.
if i didn't already know you were female, i'd know after that post.
You'd be surprised with how incorrect that is.
Although its almost logical, in practise, it doesn't happen.
If a guy ditches his best mates for a girl, things will never again be the same.
consider this.
You've been best mates since your 10. and at 18-23 one of you gets a girlfriend. A girl he's known for as little as 2 weeks, and he leaves the friend of 8-13 years behind like a peice of crap. It happens everyday and its not right.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
best thing to do is kick both of those scumbags to the curb. when the relationship fails (oh and it WILL fail) hes gonna be like "boohoo wheres my friends now i dont got a gf no more waahhhhh". then you wont be around, instead you will be doing other pimp **** (hopefully) and he will be left alone...
left alone in a world that has grown cold... so cold...