"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Friend ever Avoided U b/c of gurl?
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
maybe your friend is avoiding you because your an idiot?
more likely, he has more fun with the girl then he has with you..
you post some stupid title with no real message. and you want serious responses.
bluelemond? whats that? a member here? the guy who's avoiding you?
PM.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
How bout you grow a pair and tell him to his face, ****.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no worries, your buddy will be back .
while hes out there in relationship world, you go ahead with your life and find some other things to do and a few other friends to hang with also.
when you start having a ltr your buddy will understand when you dont have time to hang with him alot also.
lol.
if i didn't already know you were female, i'd know after that post.
You'd be surprised with how incorrect that is.
Although its almost logical, in practise, it doesn't happen.
If a guy ditches his best mates for a girl, things will never again be the same.
consider this.
You've been best mates since your 10. and at 18-23 one of you gets a girlfriend. A girl he's known for as little as 2 weeks, and he leaves the friend of 8-13 years behind like a peice of crap. It happens everyday and its not right.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
best thing to do is kick both of those scumbags to the curb. when the relationship fails (oh and it WILL fail) hes gonna be like "boohoo wheres my friends now i dont got a gf no more waahhhhh". then you wont be around, instead you will be doing other pimp **** (hopefully) and he will be left alone...
left alone in a world that has grown cold... so cold...