"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you get their subconsious arroused?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I arrouse them in other ways... like by acting a certain way?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
 

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Some might, but its about how you get their senses alive and kicking.
 

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How can it be only their sense of touch?
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What's wrong with using their sense of touch? It's proven to work best. Think about it, what's more likely to get you more arroused? A girl grinding her hip against your crotch or a girl telling thats she's going to grind against your crotch . Also if you need other senses smell is prolly next best after touch.
 

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too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?

I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
 

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theres nothing wrong with asking questions... alot of people here give great advice..
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?

I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.

Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
 

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Plec07 said:
If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.

Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
The most Effective method of doing something is the ones calculated to cause the most Effect with the least Effort.

Point in case.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
can you explain smooth and meaningful?
Think of how a male lion moves around a group of lionesses (sp?). Every stride he takes if powerful, large and with meaning.He moves in such a way that every muscle in his shoulders is visibally moving. He doesn't hesitate with any of his steps. He doesn't take little steps. He knows where he wants to be and he goes there, if there isn't anything for him on the other side he stays right where he is. There is always a reason behind his movements - meaningful -.

He does this because he is the Alpha Male. Watch the jocks and all the popular kids at school, especially the leaders of the groups. They will all move like this, with power and meaning. Do the same, and you'll become more noticed as an alpha male.

So in short, when you move in for the touch (or at all) don't hesitate and make it a large gesture.
 

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Smooth = Not nervous / jerky / robotic

Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)

Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
 

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ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?

lol I have no idea how to walk properly
 

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what do you mean you have no idea how to walk properly?!

Walk like how you would normally walk, just don't shuffle or have your head hanging down to the ground.

No big deal, it's really simple.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?

lol I have no idea how to walk properly
Walk normal as you usually do. Thats it. Nothing more.

Dont put so much pressure on yourself in trying to be perfect.
 
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