Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How do you get their subconsious arroused?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Grand Wizzard Alamar said:How do you get their subconsious arroused?
Kino. Touch them.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How do I arrouse them in other ways... like by acting a certain way?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How can it be only their sense of touch?
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
What's wrong with using their sense of touch? It's proven to work best. Think about it, what's more likely to get you more arroused? A girl grinding her hip against your crotch or a girl telling thats she's going to grind against your crotch . Also if you need other senses smell is prolly next best after touch.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
theres nothing wrong with asking questions... alot of people here give great advice..
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
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The most Effective method of doing something is the ones calculated to cause the most Effect with the least Effort.Plec07 said:If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.
Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
Point in case.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
can you explain smooth and meaningful?
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Think of how a male lion moves around a group of lionesses (sp?). Every stride he takes if powerful, large and with meaning.He moves in such a way that every muscle in his shoulders is visibally moving. He doesn't hesitate with any of his steps. He doesn't take little steps. He knows where he wants to be and he goes there, if there isn't anything for him on the other side he stays right where he is. There is always a reason behind his movements - meaningful -.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:can you explain smooth and meaningful?
He does this because he is the Alpha Male. Watch the jocks and all the popular kids at school, especially the leaders of the groups. They will all move like this, with power and meaning. Do the same, and you'll become more noticed as an alpha male.
So in short, when you move in for the touch (or at all) don't hesitate and make it a large gesture.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Smooth = Not nervous / jerky / robotic
Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)
Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)
Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Walk normal as you usually do. Thats it. Nothing more.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
Dont put so much pressure on yourself in trying to be perfect.