Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How do you get their subconsious arroused?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Grand Wizzard Alamar said:How do you get their subconsious arroused?
Kino. Touch them.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How do I arrouse them in other ways... like by acting a certain way?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How can it be only their sense of touch?
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
What's wrong with using their sense of touch? It's proven to work best. Think about it, what's more likely to get you more arroused? A girl grinding her hip against your crotch or a girl telling thats she's going to grind against your crotch . Also if you need other senses smell is prolly next best after touch.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
theres nothing wrong with asking questions... alot of people here give great advice..
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
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The most Effective method of doing something is the ones calculated to cause the most Effect with the least Effort.Plec07 said:If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.
Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
Point in case.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
can you explain smooth and meaningful?
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Think of how a male lion moves around a group of lionesses (sp?). Every stride he takes if powerful, large and with meaning.He moves in such a way that every muscle in his shoulders is visibally moving. He doesn't hesitate with any of his steps. He doesn't take little steps. He knows where he wants to be and he goes there, if there isn't anything for him on the other side he stays right where he is. There is always a reason behind his movements - meaningful -.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:can you explain smooth and meaningful?
He does this because he is the Alpha Male. Watch the jocks and all the popular kids at school, especially the leaders of the groups. They will all move like this, with power and meaning. Do the same, and you'll become more noticed as an alpha male.
So in short, when you move in for the touch (or at all) don't hesitate and make it a large gesture.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Smooth = Not nervous / jerky / robotic
Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)
Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)
Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Walk normal as you usually do. Thats it. Nothing more.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
Dont put so much pressure on yourself in trying to be perfect.