"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you get their subconsious arroused?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do I arrouse them in other ways... like by acting a certain way?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
 

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Some might, but its about how you get their senses alive and kicking.
 

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How can it be only their sense of touch?
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's wrong with using their sense of touch? It's proven to work best. Think about it, what's more likely to get you more arroused? A girl grinding her hip against your crotch or a girl telling thats she's going to grind against your crotch . Also if you need other senses smell is prolly next best after touch.
 

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too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?

I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
 

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theres nothing wrong with asking questions... alot of people here give great advice..
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?

I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.

Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
 

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Plec07 said:
If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.

Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
The most Effective method of doing something is the ones calculated to cause the most Effect with the least Effort.

Point in case.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
can you explain smooth and meaningful?
Think of how a male lion moves around a group of lionesses (sp?). Every stride he takes if powerful, large and with meaning.He moves in such a way that every muscle in his shoulders is visibally moving. He doesn't hesitate with any of his steps. He doesn't take little steps. He knows where he wants to be and he goes there, if there isn't anything for him on the other side he stays right where he is. There is always a reason behind his movements - meaningful -.

He does this because he is the Alpha Male. Watch the jocks and all the popular kids at school, especially the leaders of the groups. They will all move like this, with power and meaning. Do the same, and you'll become more noticed as an alpha male.

So in short, when you move in for the touch (or at all) don't hesitate and make it a large gesture.
 

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Smooth = Not nervous / jerky / robotic

Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)

Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
 

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ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?

lol I have no idea how to walk properly
 

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what do you mean you have no idea how to walk properly?!

Walk like how you would normally walk, just don't shuffle or have your head hanging down to the ground.

No big deal, it's really simple.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?

lol I have no idea how to walk properly
Walk normal as you usually do. Thats it. Nothing more.

Dont put so much pressure on yourself in trying to be perfect.
 
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