Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How do you get their subconsious arroused?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Grand Wizzard Alamar said:How do you get their subconsious arroused?
Kino. Touch them.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How do I arrouse them in other ways... like by acting a certain way?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
do they really get arroused by personality, or saying certain things?
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
How can it be only their sense of touch?
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
I think theres more that I probably should know about..
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
What's wrong with using their sense of touch? It's proven to work best. Think about it, what's more likely to get you more arroused? A girl grinding her hip against your crotch or a girl telling thats she's going to grind against your crotch . Also if you need other senses smell is prolly next best after touch.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
theres nothing wrong with asking questions... alot of people here give great advice..
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:too bad I can't work on a *****...
so just quick touches on like the shoulders/arms?
I can't even talk to people that well, talking about touching them X.x
Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
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The most Effective method of doing something is the ones calculated to cause the most Effect with the least Effort.Plec07 said:If your touches are too quick you'll appear nervous, they have to be smooth and meaningfull. Best places are shoulders, arms and if possible hands, hand touches are very meaningful to girls compared to guys. This girl I've been seeing didn't hold my hand properly if at all untill after I had kissed her, that's how important it is for them.
Also don't hold the touch too long unless it's like an embrace or you'll appear needy. And even with an ebrace I dont hold it for more than a few mins before I'll break it and turn my back to the girl (very rarely but sometimes rather than me breaking it I will throw her out of it into somebody else or a nearby bush/soft object, not violently of course and just say something like "sorry I needed something from my pocket and you were in the way"), only going back into it if she comes up and moves herself into it.
Point in case.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
can you explain smooth and meaningful?
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Think of how a male lion moves around a group of lionesses (sp?). Every stride he takes if powerful, large and with meaning.He moves in such a way that every muscle in his shoulders is visibally moving. He doesn't hesitate with any of his steps. He doesn't take little steps. He knows where he wants to be and he goes there, if there isn't anything for him on the other side he stays right where he is. There is always a reason behind his movements - meaningful -.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:can you explain smooth and meaningful?
He does this because he is the Alpha Male. Watch the jocks and all the popular kids at school, especially the leaders of the groups. They will all move like this, with power and meaning. Do the same, and you'll become more noticed as an alpha male.
So in short, when you move in for the touch (or at all) don't hesitate and make it a large gesture.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Smooth = Not nervous / jerky / robotic
Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)
Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
Meaningful = with a purpose( such as to emphasise , empathise etc)
Sometimes i gotta agree with superchill89 : How many girls have you approached today ; not merely with a purpose of seduction???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
nicenomore
Senior Don Juan
Walk normal as you usually do. Thats it. Nothing more.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:ok try: good posture, head up, and... slight movements with your shoulders when you walk?
lol I have no idea how to walk properly
Dont put so much pressure on yourself in trying to be perfect.