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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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FR: Nashville Pull 6/16/22
- Thread starter nicksaiz65
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Mike32ct
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I only had that happen once. There was a third seat. I sat down, re-engaged her and ignored him. He left.
If there is no spare seat, maybe invite her to dance, and you both can abandon (him and) that table.
But prevention is better than the cure. That’s my only point.
SW15
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I'm 39 years old and have been eligible to go to bars for 18 years. I've bought a woman a drink in a bar less than 3 times in those 18 years and it hasn't affected anything related to pickup.
Buying drinks as a part of pickup is so 1970s-1990s. I can't believe I'm wasting time even discussing it.
Now, I have bought women drinks on dates, many of which were arranged via swipe app. That's complete horse shiit and I've gotten soaked for way too many free drinks that didn't result in me getting sex.
nicksaiz65
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Yeah, you absolutely don’t need to buy girls drinks lol. It’s just crucial to make sure you don’t get used for them. Nothing worse than that!
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
SW15
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I got soaked for way too many free drinks on swipe apps arranged dates without them giving me access to their vaginas. I'd rather have fewer dates but higher quality dates.
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Gotta screen. First for high interest, and then compliance as a lot of post-epiphany women will feign high interest. Do this (and this goes for anybody) and the date quality will go up.
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Screening is way easier said than done. I found it problematic. I exited the swipe app channel as a means of arranging dates and focused on in-person efforts. I'd rather start the entire interaction with some in-person experience. Even in-person screening is problematic AF. I've had females agree to dates, then weasel out of them with a pre-date text. They probably did me a favor though in that case.