Murk
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Muscle your way back in and she makes a choice you or him with her eyes/actions
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FR: Nashville Pull 6/16/22
- Thread starter nicksaiz65
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Mike32ct
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I only had that happen once. There was a third seat. I sat down, re-engaged her and ignored him. He left.
If there is no spare seat, maybe invite her to dance, and you both can abandon (him and) that table.
But prevention is better than the cure. That’s my only point.
SW15
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I'm 39 years old and have been eligible to go to bars for 18 years. I've bought a woman a drink in a bar less than 3 times in those 18 years and it hasn't affected anything related to pickup.
Buying drinks as a part of pickup is so 1970s-1990s. I can't believe I'm wasting time even discussing it.
Now, I have bought women drinks on dates, many of which were arranged via swipe app. That's complete horse shiit and I've gotten soaked for way too many free drinks that didn't result in me getting sex.
nicksaiz65
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Yeah, you absolutely don’t need to buy girls drinks lol. It’s just crucial to make sure you don’t get used for them. Nothing worse than that!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
SW15
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I got soaked for way too many free drinks on swipe apps arranged dates without them giving me access to their vaginas. I'd rather have fewer dates but higher quality dates.
BillyPilgrim
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Gotta screen. First for high interest, and then compliance as a lot of post-epiphany women will feign high interest. Do this (and this goes for anybody) and the date quality will go up.
SW15
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Screening is way easier said than done. I found it problematic. I exited the swipe app channel as a means of arranging dates and focused on in-person efforts. I'd rather start the entire interaction with some in-person experience. Even in-person screening is problematic AF. I've had females agree to dates, then weasel out of them with a pre-date text. They probably did me a favor though in that case.