"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
FR: Hurricane Contact Lens, Shezz and Wize are fast becoming Style and Mystery...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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dyce
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dam i really enjoy reading FR's on this site
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I wish I had some good wingman
and lol nice collaboration for the piss opener
and do u use contact lenses?
could u reccomend some as I've been looking for some... but many say they are rubbish :\
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's pretty expensive . . . I can get a box of 6 for like $40. But back to the point of the thread, sounds like you guys had a great time, minus the flick in the eye . . . Just shows you that ANYTHING can happen in the field!
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
You are DJ material, but long from a DJ. Locations, possibilites, open your mind bro.
hehe at least I learned something, I'm wasting my time, my looks, and my pockets by paying $300 for a raunchy pair of bottle cap glasses.
Oh yeah, the rage tech works wonders on some girls... So does the caveman... especialy when your voice is nasally for the day, just turn up the cave man and you can let your rage flow
dyce
Don Juan
spider_007
Master Don Juan
:cheer:Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
and shezzler, like I said, look for the possibilities... how the **** can I elaborate on that? I'm not one to say look under that rock over there for the answer you seek, I'm no sifu.
Your field report changed significantly from this post and the nearly identical one at flag heh?
it sounds better over there, but more truthful here. Don't be a poser.
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bottle cap glasses, IE I am legally blind, I need huge glasses to see with, If I had known contacts were so cheap I would have opted for them long ago... A part of being social is to talk about what urrbody else knows. I hate critics though,because of it, cause they sound so energetic talking about that one movie they watched 100 times over.
star trek fans come to mind.
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lots of assumed intelligence there, you've got the, you even taught me the word cavemanning. I just called it miming, since I could do it without words and still elicit the same emotions for the technique to be succesful.
don't be so quick to stomp on people man, theres knowledge everywhere.
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Hmmmm
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
The_Shezzler
I flicked her on the end of the nose (for what reason, i have no idea lol)
She went to flick me back and i turned my head away...only for her extra long finger nail to connect with my eye ball, and ultimately my contact lens!
:crackup:
reminded me of
Quote: Don Pablo
” The George McFly backshot has gotten me laid so many times its not even funny. Too bad my friends are all beat up. “
The George McFly nose flick
WARNING DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME :crackup:
NO CONTACT LENSES WERE HARMED IN THE MAKING OF THIS POST
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
twice I posted the exact same thing with different wording, I could do it again in laymans terms and hope you glean some info from it... but I choose not to waste my timeI'm saying, look for possibilities, you went screaming out of that place like a flibbering caveman, you didn;t give her a chance, I bet you got poked and ran like a little *****. How's that for blatant observation? It's better than advice to be told the truth.