"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
FR: Hurricane Contact Lens, Shezz and Wize are fast becoming Style and Mystery...
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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dyce
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dam i really enjoy reading FR's on this site
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I wish I had some good wingman
and lol nice collaboration for the piss opener
and do u use contact lenses?
could u reccomend some as I've been looking for some... but many say they are rubbish :\
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's pretty expensive . . . I can get a box of 6 for like $40. But back to the point of the thread, sounds like you guys had a great time, minus the flick in the eye . . . Just shows you that ANYTHING can happen in the field!
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
You are DJ material, but long from a DJ. Locations, possibilites, open your mind bro.
hehe at least I learned something, I'm wasting my time, my looks, and my pockets by paying $300 for a raunchy pair of bottle cap glasses.
Oh yeah, the rage tech works wonders on some girls... So does the caveman... especialy when your voice is nasally for the day, just turn up the cave man and you can let your rage flow
dyce
Don Juan
spider_007
Master Don Juan
:cheer:Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
and shezzler, like I said, look for the possibilities... how the **** can I elaborate on that? I'm not one to say look under that rock over there for the answer you seek, I'm no sifu.
Your field report changed significantly from this post and the nearly identical one at flag heh?
it sounds better over there, but more truthful here. Don't be a poser.
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bottle cap glasses, IE I am legally blind, I need huge glasses to see with, If I had known contacts were so cheap I would have opted for them long ago... A part of being social is to talk about what urrbody else knows. I hate critics though,because of it, cause they sound so energetic talking about that one movie they watched 100 times over.
star trek fans come to mind.
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lots of assumed intelligence there, you've got the, you even taught me the word cavemanning. I just called it miming, since I could do it without words and still elicit the same emotions for the technique to be succesful.
don't be so quick to stomp on people man, theres knowledge everywhere.
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Hmmmm
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
The_Shezzler
I flicked her on the end of the nose (for what reason, i have no idea lol)
She went to flick me back and i turned my head away...only for her extra long finger nail to connect with my eye ball, and ultimately my contact lens!
:crackup:
reminded me of
Quote: Don Pablo
” The George McFly backshot has gotten me laid so many times its not even funny. Too bad my friends are all beat up. “
The George McFly nose flick
WARNING DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME :crackup:
NO CONTACT LENSES WERE HARMED IN THE MAKING OF THIS POST
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
twice I posted the exact same thing with different wording, I could do it again in laymans terms and hope you glean some info from it... but I choose not to waste my timeI'm saying, look for possibilities, you went screaming out of that place like a flibbering caveman, you didn;t give her a chance, I bet you got poked and ran like a little *****. How's that for blatant observation? It's better than advice to be told the truth.