You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Actually, girls only ask questions when they're interested. First off, it takes a lot for a girl to even approach a guy that she doesn't really know, so they wouldn't just do it because they weren't interested. She approached me, which is definitely a sign of interest. And then she brings up the piano thing, now she didn't have to do that, she could've just said "Oh that's cool". And oh, let's add the fact that she didn't resist when I hinted at meeting up. Yeah, a girl will just meet up with any random guy.Bvbidd said:It's called a conversation it has nothing to do with her being interested in you as love interest or anything.
Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.Bvbidd said:I talk to girls all the time it's called talking it hardly ever goes anywhere.
I doubt this will too, she was being friendly.
People don't talk to people just because they wanna have sex with them.
Your taking this out of context. WOW somebody talked to you! OMG that means they wanna suck you off!
and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...ElStud said:If you see Michele, lafaglio in a thread, you might as well ignore him because his only purpose is to spam and get the attention he doesn't get in real life by raiding threads.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You KBJ's are so easy to see through. Haha, yeah, you can call me stupid, b*tch, d*ckface, fat retarded black kid, I don't care because while you're spending your time flaming me like a little kid, I'm improving.Michele said:and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...
-air guitar
-band
-amanda
-prince
-amanda rejecting him
-being scared of amanda
-keyboard jockies
-amanda
-arguing for being criticized
-butterflies in his basket when about to approach amanda
you have no proof of success also RFBK.
i can give awesome advice if i bothered to read all of them, but it seems if they did a search, people will find their answers.
i don't need any proof of success through FRs (obviously you're waste of life is posting FRs and still no results)... i consider myself successful enough, and i'm happy where i am. when i see someone i care to talk to, i'll do it.
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you're the typical troll who makes a retarded thread knowing there's nothing great about it... but you know that people will say something about it. you start arguing for a good 15 sentences, then you add 3 sentences related to your own thread to save it from being closed and thrown off topic. the purpose of you doing that is so you can blame everyone else for arguing and not contributing to the thread (which is what you do).
ElStud said:Thanks guys but no offense GWA but I don't think you should be giving advice. Sure it sounds good, but likely you yourself haven't used it in field yet.
Nah man lol it was really one of my first times really getting to have a good conversation with the girl so I didn't go for it. But since she's in my Science class, there'll be other days to get the number. I don't know though, I might just go for Amanda or Allie.Jukeboxhero said:That's awesome!
So you did get her number, right?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
hahahahaKev07 said:At least GWA has tried to # close before, he's ahead of you.
Close her next time
They approach so easily they don't even need any balls!int3l said:Apart from that, since when was it hard for girls to approach guys? Girls do it all the time...
Here is a question. Did you know that attraction and interest are OBJECTIVE?ElStud said:Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.
What I'm saying is that, she's definitely probably attracted and I could definitely escalate things with this chick. If you think girls going up to guys is common, might want to chick that. For a girl to go up to a RANDOM guy she has to be really interested.