"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: Girl talked to me.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bvbidd said:
It's called a conversation it has nothing to do with her being interested in you as love interest or anything.
Actually, girls only ask questions when they're interested. First off, it takes a lot for a girl to even approach a guy that she doesn't really know, so they wouldn't just do it because they weren't interested. She approached me, which is definitely a sign of interest. And then she brings up the piano thing, now she didn't have to do that, she could've just said "Oh that's cool". And oh, let's add the fact that she didn't resist when I hinted at meeting up. Yeah, a girl will just meet up with any random guy.

Attack of the keyboard jockies. Haha, yes, it's so predictable who they are too, the people who come into threads and act like children and also preach what they don't know. If you one word post, you might as well come out with it, you're a troll and a KBJ. If you see Michele, lafaglio in a thread, you might as well ignore him because his only purpose is to spam and get the attention he doesn't get in real life by raiding threads. If you see GWA that's also a clear sign of a KBJ. GWA has a reputation of giving advice he doesn't take and surprise, he ARGUES when people criticize him like a typical KBJ. How about this, stop masturbating and spamming forums, go do something and get off the d*cks of those who are improving.
 

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I talk to girls all the time it's called talking it hardly ever goes anywhere.

I doubt this will too, she was being friendly.

People don't talk to people just because they wanna have sex with them.

Your taking this out of context. WOW somebody talked to you! OMG that means they wanna suck you off!
 

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Bvbidd said:
I talk to girls all the time it's called talking it hardly ever goes anywhere.

I doubt this will too, she was being friendly.

People don't talk to people just because they wanna have sex with them.

Your taking this out of context. WOW somebody talked to you! OMG that means they wanna suck you off!
Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.

What I'm saying is that, she's definitely probably attracted and I could definitely escalate things with this chick. If you think girls going up to guys is common, might want to chick that. For a girl to go up to a RANDOM guy she has to be really interested.
 

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ElStud said:
If you see Michele, lafaglio in a thread, you might as well ignore him because his only purpose is to spam and get the attention he doesn't get in real life by raiding threads.
and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...

-air guitar
-band
-amanda
-prince
-amanda rejecting him
-being scared of amanda
-keyboard jockies
-amanda
-arguing for being criticized
-butterflies in his basket when about to approach amanda

you have no proof of success also RFBK.

i can give awesome advice if i bothered to read all of them, but it seems if they did a search, people will find their answers.

i don't need any proof of success through FRs (obviously you're waste of life is posting FRs and still no results)... i consider myself successful enough, and i'm happy where i am. when i see someone i care to talk to, i'll do it.

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you're the typical troll who makes a retarded thread knowing there's nothing great about it... but you know that people will say something about it. you start arguing for a good 15 sentences, then you add 3 sentences related to your own thread to save it from being closed and thrown off topic. the purpose of you doing that is so you can blame everyone else for arguing and not contributing to the thread (which is what you do).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele said:
and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...

-air guitar
-band
-amanda
-prince
-amanda rejecting him
-being scared of amanda
-keyboard jockies
-amanda
-arguing for being criticized
-butterflies in his basket when about to approach amanda

you have no proof of success also RFBK.

i can give awesome advice if i bothered to read all of them, but it seems if they did a search, people will find their answers.

i don't need any proof of success through FRs (obviously you're waste of life is posting FRs and still no results)... i consider myself successful enough, and i'm happy where i am. when i see someone i care to talk to, i'll do it.

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you're the typical troll who makes a retarded thread knowing there's nothing great about it... but you know that people will say something about it. you start arguing for a good 15 sentences, then you add 3 sentences related to your own thread to save it from being closed and thrown off topic. the purpose of you doing that is so you can blame everyone else for arguing and not contributing to the thread (which is what you do).
You KBJ's are so easy to see through. Haha, yeah, you can call me stupid, b*tch, d*ckface, fat retarded black kid, I don't care because while you're spending your time flaming me like a little kid, I'm improving.

You have no proof of even being able to so much as go up to a girl and say something. KBJ's are so typical, taking any oppurtunity they can to flame someone. Haha, man, you're a sad one, you stay at home all day flaming people on the internet, talking crap about your success and giving false advice, while you could actually be going out into the field and doing stuff. But I don't care, it's your life your screwing up. Meanwhile I'm improving day by day.

Hey, I'm sure you give awesome advice man, no need to qualify yourself.

And the last paragraph, yap yap yap, all I see is words but you really said nothing relavent.

But dude, even if you're not a KBJ or troll, one thing can be said about you, you're an immature child who needs to grow the f*ck up. And another things for sure, you may get laid sometimes, but I can tell by your horrible attitude that you're not a Don Juan. I wouldn't be surprised if your whole game was based completely on tricking the girl into thinking your authentic because if you REALLY act this way around girls, there is no way she's digging the REAL YOU. And something else that can definitely be said is you don't get laid consistantly. With me, girls see the truth, I act the same way around girls as do around anybody else.

I'm improving. Girls are laughing at my jokes and becoming more interested in me. I'm expanding my social circle. But you, even if you do get laid, you will ALWAYS be an immature loser. That's just how you are, that's just how your attitude is and you'll never get over yourself.

And anything not related to this topic will now be ignored. Leave your kiddy crap in preschool.
 

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Jukeboxhero said:
That's awesome!

So you did get her number, right?
Nah man lol it was really one of my first times really getting to have a good conversation with the girl so I didn't go for it. But since she's in my Science class, there'll be other days to get the number. I don't know though, I might just go for Amanda or Allie.
 

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****, just let the man take it at his own pace. Who gives a **** if he doesn't number close after the first conversation. Hell, maybe he just wasn't interested at the time.

Apart from that, since when was it hard for girls to approach guys? Girls do it all the time...
 

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That's not right int3l! Girls never approach guys unless they're interested. They can easily avoid approaching anyone they're not interested in, and never have to talk to people they just want to be aquainted with!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kev07 said:
At least GWA has tried to # close before, he's ahead of you.

Close her next time
hahahaha
I used "can I have your number?" I wouldn't call myself ahead of him in that way.

int3l said:
Apart from that, since when was it hard for girls to approach guys? Girls do it all the time...
They approach so easily they don't even need any balls!
 

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ElStud said:
Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.

What I'm saying is that, she's definitely probably attracted and I could definitely escalate things with this chick. If you think girls going up to guys is common, might want to chick that. For a girl to go up to a RANDOM guy she has to be really interested.
Here is a question. Did you know that attraction and interest are OBJECTIVE?
Meaning a girl is either attracted to you or isn't, perception and assumptions don't matter. So.. how can you POSSIBLY know about what attraction and interest are if you haven't hooked up with a girl? You can ASSUME that a girl who asks questions is interested.. therefore being subjective.. but you can only KNOW that she is attracted when you have actually made a PROPER ADVANCE(and I don't mean talking) that she hasn't rejected. So until you yourself learn about attraction in the real world and not in that little head of yours.. stop telling other people they don't know about attraction. MMkay pumpkin?
 

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holy ****...this thread is full of whiny babies!!

Of course she would **** you elstud but in the convo you casual mentioned "we should jam" blah blah.. more than once

Remember to change threads/topics of convo and not act so desperate to hang out!! Get her to qualify once and try to get that number.
 
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