She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Actually, girls only ask questions when they're interested. First off, it takes a lot for a girl to even approach a guy that she doesn't really know, so they wouldn't just do it because they weren't interested. She approached me, which is definitely a sign of interest. And then she brings up the piano thing, now she didn't have to do that, she could've just said "Oh that's cool". And oh, let's add the fact that she didn't resist when I hinted at meeting up. Yeah, a girl will just meet up with any random guy.Bvbidd said:It's called a conversation it has nothing to do with her being interested in you as love interest or anything.
Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.Bvbidd said:I talk to girls all the time it's called talking it hardly ever goes anywhere.
I doubt this will too, she was being friendly.
People don't talk to people just because they wanna have sex with them.
Your taking this out of context. WOW somebody talked to you! OMG that means they wanna suck you off!
and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...ElStud said:If you see Michele, lafaglio in a thread, you might as well ignore him because his only purpose is to spam and get the attention he doesn't get in real life by raiding threads.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You KBJ's are so easy to see through. Haha, yeah, you can call me stupid, b*tch, d*ckface, fat retarded black kid, I don't care because while you're spending your time flaming me like a little kid, I'm improving.Michele said:and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...
-air guitar
-band
-amanda
-prince
-amanda rejecting him
-being scared of amanda
-keyboard jockies
-amanda
-arguing for being criticized
-butterflies in his basket when about to approach amanda
you have no proof of success also RFBK.
i can give awesome advice if i bothered to read all of them, but it seems if they did a search, people will find their answers.
i don't need any proof of success through FRs (obviously you're waste of life is posting FRs and still no results)... i consider myself successful enough, and i'm happy where i am. when i see someone i care to talk to, i'll do it.
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you're the typical troll who makes a retarded thread knowing there's nothing great about it... but you know that people will say something about it. you start arguing for a good 15 sentences, then you add 3 sentences related to your own thread to save it from being closed and thrown off topic. the purpose of you doing that is so you can blame everyone else for arguing and not contributing to the thread (which is what you do).
ElStud said:Thanks guys but no offense GWA but I don't think you should be giving advice. Sure it sounds good, but likely you yourself haven't used it in field yet.
Nah man lol it was really one of my first times really getting to have a good conversation with the girl so I didn't go for it. But since she's in my Science class, there'll be other days to get the number. I don't know though, I might just go for Amanda or Allie.Jukeboxhero said:That's awesome!
So you did get her number, right?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
hahahahaKev07 said:At least GWA has tried to # close before, he's ahead of you.
Close her next time
They approach so easily they don't even need any balls!int3l said:Apart from that, since when was it hard for girls to approach guys? Girls do it all the time...
Here is a question. Did you know that attraction and interest are OBJECTIVE?ElStud said:Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.
What I'm saying is that, she's definitely probably attracted and I could definitely escalate things with this chick. If you think girls going up to guys is common, might want to chick that. For a girl to go up to a RANDOM guy she has to be really interested.