You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Actually, girls only ask questions when they're interested. First off, it takes a lot for a girl to even approach a guy that she doesn't really know, so they wouldn't just do it because they weren't interested. She approached me, which is definitely a sign of interest. And then she brings up the piano thing, now she didn't have to do that, she could've just said "Oh that's cool". And oh, let's add the fact that she didn't resist when I hinted at meeting up. Yeah, a girl will just meet up with any random guy.Bvbidd said:It's called a conversation it has nothing to do with her being interested in you as love interest or anything.
Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.Bvbidd said:I talk to girls all the time it's called talking it hardly ever goes anywhere.
I doubt this will too, she was being friendly.
People don't talk to people just because they wanna have sex with them.
Your taking this out of context. WOW somebody talked to you! OMG that means they wanna suck you off!
and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...ElStud said:If you see Michele, lafaglio in a thread, you might as well ignore him because his only purpose is to spam and get the attention he doesn't get in real life by raiding threads.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You KBJ's are so easy to see through. Haha, yeah, you can call me stupid, b*tch, d*ckface, fat retarded black kid, I don't care because while you're spending your time flaming me like a little kid, I'm improving.Michele said:and if you ever see el......stupid...o (oh yeah ***** take that) you might as well not open it because it's going to have a lame FR that proves nothing but a retarded fat black kid talking about...
-air guitar
-band
-amanda
-prince
-amanda rejecting him
-being scared of amanda
-keyboard jockies
-amanda
-arguing for being criticized
-butterflies in his basket when about to approach amanda
you have no proof of success also RFBK.
i can give awesome advice if i bothered to read all of them, but it seems if they did a search, people will find their answers.
i don't need any proof of success through FRs (obviously you're waste of life is posting FRs and still no results)... i consider myself successful enough, and i'm happy where i am. when i see someone i care to talk to, i'll do it.
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you're the typical troll who makes a retarded thread knowing there's nothing great about it... but you know that people will say something about it. you start arguing for a good 15 sentences, then you add 3 sentences related to your own thread to save it from being closed and thrown off topic. the purpose of you doing that is so you can blame everyone else for arguing and not contributing to the thread (which is what you do).
ElStud said:Thanks guys but no offense GWA but I don't think you should be giving advice. Sure it sounds good, but likely you yourself haven't used it in field yet.
Nah man lol it was really one of my first times really getting to have a good conversation with the girl so I didn't go for it. But since she's in my Science class, there'll be other days to get the number. I don't know though, I might just go for Amanda or Allie.Jukeboxhero said:That's awesome!
So you did get her number, right?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hahahahaKev07 said:At least GWA has tried to # close before, he's ahead of you.
Close her next time
They approach so easily they don't even need any balls!int3l said:Apart from that, since when was it hard for girls to approach guys? Girls do it all the time...
Here is a question. Did you know that attraction and interest are OBJECTIVE?ElStud said:Bvbidd has tons of advice, but no proof of success whatsover, why am I not surprised? Yeah. I'm sorry my friend but you understand LITTLE about attraction. If a girl asks a question it's clear interest. If she tries to initiate rapport, that is DEFINITELY interest. Sure if the guy goes up to the girl and she answers the guys questions, that is not so, but the other way around it's definitely interest. And you're basically telling me a girl will meet up with a guy who has no value whatsoever to her? Haha, quiet child.
What I'm saying is that, she's definitely probably attracted and I could definitely escalate things with this chick. If you think girls going up to guys is common, might want to chick that. For a girl to go up to a RANDOM guy she has to be really interested.