sandman6991
Senior Don Juan
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ElStud...you're just so damn insecure and defensive all the time. You open yourself up to all of this
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
FR: Girl I talked to outside of library.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ElStud,
You're actually not doing that badly. Most guys don't approach girls outside their social circles at all, so you have a leg up on most guys in this category. However, you definitely need to get past this whole "getting their Facebook" thing and get some phone numbers. Then, you call them and go on dates with them. It isn't that hard.
The whole Pokemon thing is a little weird too. I don't know where you come up with some of the things that you do.
You're actually not doing that badly. Most guys don't approach girls outside their social circles at all, so you have a leg up on most guys in this category. However, you definitely need to get past this whole "getting their Facebook" thing and get some phone numbers. Then, you call them and go on dates with them. It isn't that hard.
The whole Pokemon thing is a little weird too. I don't know where you come up with some of the things that you do.
Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
And we're so proud of you.ElStud said:Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
You're the man bro. Keep opening sets. :rock:ElStud said:I think the difference between me and you guys though, is you approach one set and analyze it. Meanwhile I approach and if it doesn't go well I just move on to the next set.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Haha, and you know while you were crashing and burning i was having sex with my girlfriend. You know, actually had some sort of physical contact with the female species. So while you hate on me...i keep on truckin...hahahaElStud said:Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
ElStud said:Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
You have definitely not improved in the five months I've been back on this forum. Anyway, didn't you decide you just wanted to hang out with dudes?
Good for you man. Does your little ego make you happy? I don't really give a sh*t what you're doing with your girlfriend. And dude, I really don't think you're in any realm to be talking about haters. Let's just put it this way, I aint an ass pirate like you. I care about more things than girls. Sure, I want girls, but they aint my life. This forum becomes more of a joke everyday.oakraiderz2 said:Haha, and you know while you were crashing and burning i was having sex with my girlfriend. You know, actually had some sort of physical contact with the female species. So while you hate on me...i keep on truckin...hahaha
Not a breeding ground for what it advertises, Don Juans, but a breeding ground for asspirates who are desperate for p*ssy.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Yea, it does, im glad you noticed. Stop talking sh*t. If you dont care about girls then why are you posting HORRIBLE frs? Youre a tool. Hahahahaha...youre funny. Youre crazy antics are the only reason i respond to youre post. Hahah, youre funny, kiddo.ElStud said:Good for you man. Does your little ego make you happy? I don't really give a sh*t what you're doing with your girlfriend. And dude, I really don't think you're in any realm to be talking about haters. Let's just put it this way, I aint an ass pirate like you. I care about more things than girls. Sure, I want girls, but they aint my life. This forum becomes more of a joke everyday.
Not a breeding ground for what it advertises, Don Juans, but a breeding ground for asspirates who are desperate for p*ssy.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Months away and it's still the same old ****.
Guys, I've had my go arounds with El Stud, and I flamed him worse than anyone, but after some much needed perspective, he'sout there talking to birds.
Yeah he doesn't get dates, and yeah he doesn't get laid, but he's in the field.
He'll improve in time. Hopefully.
Guys, I've had my go arounds with El Stud, and I flamed him worse than anyone, but after some much needed perspective, he'sout there talking to birds.
Yeah he doesn't get dates, and yeah he doesn't get laid, but he's in the field.
He'll improve in time. Hopefully.