sandman6991
Senior Don Juan
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ElStud...you're just so damn insecure and defensive all the time. You open yourself up to all of this
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
FR: Girl I talked to outside of library.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ElStud,
You're actually not doing that badly. Most guys don't approach girls outside their social circles at all, so you have a leg up on most guys in this category. However, you definitely need to get past this whole "getting their Facebook" thing and get some phone numbers. Then, you call them and go on dates with them. It isn't that hard.
The whole Pokemon thing is a little weird too. I don't know where you come up with some of the things that you do.
You're actually not doing that badly. Most guys don't approach girls outside their social circles at all, so you have a leg up on most guys in this category. However, you definitely need to get past this whole "getting their Facebook" thing and get some phone numbers. Then, you call them and go on dates with them. It isn't that hard.
The whole Pokemon thing is a little weird too. I don't know where you come up with some of the things that you do.
Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
And we're so proud of you.ElStud said:Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
You're the man bro. Keep opening sets. :rock:ElStud said:I think the difference between me and you guys though, is you approach one set and analyze it. Meanwhile I approach and if it doesn't go well I just move on to the next set.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Haha, and you know while you were crashing and burning i was having sex with my girlfriend. You know, actually had some sort of physical contact with the female species. So while you hate on me...i keep on truckin...hahahaElStud said:Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
ElStud said:Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
You have definitely not improved in the five months I've been back on this forum. Anyway, didn't you decide you just wanted to hang out with dudes?
Good for you man. Does your little ego make you happy? I don't really give a sh*t what you're doing with your girlfriend. And dude, I really don't think you're in any realm to be talking about haters. Let's just put it this way, I aint an ass pirate like you. I care about more things than girls. Sure, I want girls, but they aint my life. This forum becomes more of a joke everyday.oakraiderz2 said:Haha, and you know while you were crashing and burning i was having sex with my girlfriend. You know, actually had some sort of physical contact with the female species. So while you hate on me...i keep on truckin...hahaha
Not a breeding ground for what it advertises, Don Juans, but a breeding ground for asspirates who are desperate for p*ssy.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Yea, it does, im glad you noticed. Stop talking sh*t. If you dont care about girls then why are you posting HORRIBLE frs? Youre a tool. Hahahahaha...youre funny. Youre crazy antics are the only reason i respond to youre post. Hahah, youre funny, kiddo.ElStud said:Good for you man. Does your little ego make you happy? I don't really give a sh*t what you're doing with your girlfriend. And dude, I really don't think you're in any realm to be talking about haters. Let's just put it this way, I aint an ass pirate like you. I care about more things than girls. Sure, I want girls, but they aint my life. This forum becomes more of a joke everyday.
Not a breeding ground for what it advertises, Don Juans, but a breeding ground for asspirates who are desperate for p*ssy.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Months away and it's still the same old ****.
Guys, I've had my go arounds with El Stud, and I flamed him worse than anyone, but after some much needed perspective, he'sout there talking to birds.
Yeah he doesn't get dates, and yeah he doesn't get laid, but he's in the field.
He'll improve in time. Hopefully.
Guys, I've had my go arounds with El Stud, and I flamed him worse than anyone, but after some much needed perspective, he'sout there talking to birds.
Yeah he doesn't get dates, and yeah he doesn't get laid, but he's in the field.
He'll improve in time. Hopefully.