“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: Girl I talked to outside of library.

sandman6991

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ElStud...you're just so damn insecure and defensive all the time. You open yourself up to all of this
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ElStud,

You're actually not doing that badly. Most guys don't approach girls outside their social circles at all, so you have a leg up on most guys in this category. However, you definitely need to get past this whole "getting their Facebook" thing and get some phone numbers. Then, you call them and go on dates with them. It isn't that hard.

The whole Pokemon thing is a little weird too. I don't know where you come up with some of the things that you do.
 

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Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
 

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ElStud said:
Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
And we're so proud of you.
 

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I think the difference between me and you guys though, is you approach one set and analyze it. Meanwhile I approach and if it doesn't go well I just move on to the next set.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ElStud said:
I think the difference between me and you guys though, is you approach one set and analyze it. Meanwhile I approach and if it doesn't go well I just move on to the next set.
You're the man bro. Keep opening sets. :rock:
 

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ElStud said:
Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.
Haha, and you know while you were crashing and burning i was having sex with my girlfriend. You know, actually had some sort of physical contact with the female species. So while you hate on me...i keep on truckin...hahaha
 

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Elstud,

The only thing you bring to this community is your "I'm better than everyone else" attitude. Keep it up though, it always makes for a good laugh.
 

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ElStud said:
Wow, people are still replying to this topic. Haha and while you guys have been focused on this one approach and still focusing on hating on it, I've actually gone out since then and approached several other girls. You know, I've actually gone out there and improved.

You have definitely not improved in the five months I've been back on this forum. Anyway, didn't you decide you just wanted to hang out with dudes?
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Haha, and you know while you were crashing and burning i was having sex with my girlfriend. You know, actually had some sort of physical contact with the female species. So while you hate on me...i keep on truckin...hahaha
Good for you man. Does your little ego make you happy? I don't really give a sh*t what you're doing with your girlfriend. And dude, I really don't think you're in any realm to be talking about haters. Let's just put it this way, I aint an ass pirate like you. I care about more things than girls. Sure, I want girls, but they aint my life. This forum becomes more of a joke everyday.

Not a breeding ground for what it advertises, Don Juans, but a breeding ground for asspirates who are desperate for p*ssy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ElStud said:
Good for you man. Does your little ego make you happy? I don't really give a sh*t what you're doing with your girlfriend. And dude, I really don't think you're in any realm to be talking about haters. Let's just put it this way, I aint an ass pirate like you. I care about more things than girls. Sure, I want girls, but they aint my life. This forum becomes more of a joke everyday.

Not a breeding ground for what it advertises, Don Juans, but a breeding ground for asspirates who are desperate for p*ssy.
Yea, it does, im glad you noticed. Stop talking sh*t. If you dont care about girls then why are you posting HORRIBLE frs? Youre a tool. Hahahahaha...youre funny. Youre crazy antics are the only reason i respond to youre post. Hahah, youre funny, kiddo.
 

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Months away and it's still the same old ****.

Guys, I've had my go arounds with El Stud, and I flamed him worse than anyone, but after some much needed perspective, he'sout there talking to birds.

Yeah he doesn't get dates, and yeah he doesn't get laid, but he's in the field.

He'll improve in time. Hopefully.
 
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